Are there others on here whose WAM fetish is driven by the tactile sensations of slippery stuff, rather than the humiliation/game element? For me this is the case and it's closely related to my other fetish for spandex and silky sportswear, just generally a love of full body slippery sensations that has been there since a very young age

Oh, yes, definitely the sensation part. I really don't get the humiliation/game/slapstick/contrived circumstance side of it at all. But, give me some warm, creamy mud on a hot summer evening - then I'm happy! But, to each their own.

I agree with you about the sensations - getting wet or messy - and totally understand the silky sports kit element too.

I don't know if it's the same thing but the sensation of feeling whatever it is go over you is very pleasurable. Don't get the humiliation thing either. It was always and still is cringe to me when you see it done to people. It's odd, when i look at some of my gunge photos i get turned on and it' s not an ego thing, it's like i'm looking at pictures of a completely different person,but anyway i digress

Couldn't agree more. The humiliation part can be fun, but it's the feeling of being completely consumed that really gets me. Getting naked, letting yourself go, and feeling the thick slop wrap around you, so heavy and so slick. It's the kind of rush that takes over everything.

It's all about the sensation for me.

The humiliation aspect is completely foreign to me.

Have to admit, I like all of the 'sensations' , gettin' 'geared-up', the 'anticipation', of what might happen, maybe some 'humiliation'', maybe some 'slapstick' ..... And just havin' some 'fun'....
Guess all of the 'sensations' involved..........

And the final 'release' of a good session......

A really interesting post. I hope there are lots more responses before it drops down the list. This really brings out my inner psychologist - well, until the slop drops and I can just wallow and enjoy it for what it is.

For me, the sensation (feel, weight, smell) is key and the thinking going on before and during the messing. The power of my mind and imagination never ceases to astound me. I've never been diagnosed, but I strongly suspect that I may be autistic. That sensation, texture, weight thing is a typical marker. My daughter has been diagnosed and they have a weighted blanket (which is a common accessory for autistic people and gives a similar sensation to a covering of thick gunge!). Id be fascinated to know how many of us on here are on the spectrum.....

The slapstick/game element I still find slightly embarassing, as if covering up the real reason for doing it - like watching someone wriggling around in disgust while being gunged, when you can see in their eyes, they really want it....

I must admit though, as I have got older, I've found my version of this fetish has subtly changed. I'm surprised that these days, I am open to a little humiliation, and maybe this will increase. I also find myself chuckling at content like the games on Messyworld, which my younger, more serious self would have dismissed. Gosh, I was a serious, studious wammer! Perhaps I've just got to a point where I can enjoy the sensations as part of an overall package. Chatting to friends on here has definitely opened my mind to other ways of looking at things too....

But sensations is what it is all about for me. In life, thick gloop and classical music.... That's what keeps me going....

The sensation of thick warm chocolate batter (or porridge) going over me from head to toe always is one of my favourite things when doing WAM

I'm mostly about sensation, that's the biggest part of it for me. Game style mess, humiliation, slapstick etc aren't my focus at all. Though I will say, there is something nice about having someone else involved if they know how to push my buttons, and there's something about the passivity of being slopped up by someone else that I could cheerfully explore some more. (Obviously more than willing to reciprocate in such scenarios - I don't want to come across as the WAM version of a pillow princess...)

This is an interesting thread. It's really interesting to hear about others. It's important to have a place where people can realize they're not alone.

For me, it is really ALL about the humiliation. My fetish is seeing it done to some hunky guy. But fetishes by their nature are difficult to explain, and they are what they are. For some, it's a turn-off to see that the person isn't enjoying it, but for me that's most of the attraction. To be clear, I'm not approaching people on the street--that would just be wrong. But I definitely like the (mostly Latin American) shows where there are messy punishments and the guy just has to take it.

I love the sensation, which is why I like mud, slime, lubes etc, and and less of a fan of things that are sticky etc.

That said, I am a very visual, straight, man and sensation alone doesn't necessarily do it for me. And that's part of the reason that self WAM just feels kinda depressing to me. I need a partner to enjoy it with.

For me it's always sensation rather than humiliation. I love how my clothes cling and go shiny when wet or messy

Yep this is very much me too.

Forgot to add the feeling & sucking sound of going into mud (especially for the first time) is another awesome sensation for me

to me is not only the look of mud in a woman's body, to me is also the feel of mud in my clothes, in my skin, just touch it and move it in my hands turns me on

It's been a purely visual thing for me for years and years. Last year I finally started to play around with shaving cream and now it's something I try to do once a month if I can. 2-4 cans in the shower, plastic plates or pie tins... I do love all of the sensations - getting hit with watery cream, pushing a bunch of it into my face, filling my shorts with it. I will say that adding a bit of humiliation fantasization into the mix amplifies everything 10x for me...

This is how it is for me. Just love the all-over slippery, slidey, oozy feelings

Totally agree about the slippery stuff: oil, lube, slime and especially mud are all amazing. Foodstuffs don't generally do it for me. Although I enjoy self-WAM and don't find it depressing, it's definitely better with a partner!

I enjoy watching a handsome guy getting messed up, seeing his clothes and perfectly coiffed hair get destroyed. But it's secondary to the sensations. That's what I love most about WAM; there can be an aspect of BDSM there, sure, but it also engages all of your senses. The visuals, the cold splat and slipperiness, the squelching sounds, the taste and smell, whether nice or nasty. Sensory overload in the best possible way!