Id always planned for the first time I got messy to be with someone else but while I figure out the logistics and safety of that next month I've got to stay in a hotel room alone and im considering getting myself messy so I'm looking for advice as I'm slightly clueless how do you go about cleaning and the logistics of that any advice welcome

And then second part of it for me I think is the humiliation side etc and I wanted to meet with some so I had no control over what was happening so if anyone wants to suggest anything I should use please feel free would be appreciated but I'd like to avoid savoury things

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Hotel room: Turn it into Dexter's kill room! Plastic sheets are our friend. Have bin bags ready for everything and towels. Also a clean/ covered route to the bathroom. Take all the cleaning supplies you need in case of spillages. Also, don't worry too much as I dated a hotel cleaner for a bit and nothing you can do is worse than what they have seen. Unless you cause damage, you won't be charged.

Meeting up with folks: Hope I am not patronising here but...
Take you time! The internet is anonymous so always tricky at the best of times and trust your gut about a person. When you add in humiliation etc, you really need to set the boundaries way ahead of time. Keep yourself safe, when meeting and during the session.
Saying "No control over what is happening" is not a good thing as it can lead to misunderstandings.
As for what to use: What are you limits (savoury) what do you find humiliating? Being pied, having your clothes filled. Also the scene, do you want to just be relentlessly messed up or do you like to play hopelessly rigged games where you get messy when you lose? So many options, but again, set the scene before you meet up and you will have a much better time.

If you want to DM me any questions feel free (I am a sex therapist, I have had a few of these conversations!)

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Hotel room hire room got wet room is best for clearn up and kid pool keep all mess. Make sure clearn stuff with you. Other bits

Point of humiliation you let other person take control of mess but have limit setup

Drop me dm anytime or check x or instgram out. Might join us if like

I personally use clothes I'm happy to throw away afterwards then I don't need to worry about trying to get them cleaned.
If you're using dairy products like cream, custard, etc then try to source non dairy or plant based alternatives if you can as dairy products can leave a lingering sour smell on your body. Be careful with really sugary items like syrup and treacle as i've found they can sting your eyes a fair bit.
Clean yourself before you clean the area you got messy in and properly scrub your body several times as mess gets into every nook and cranny of your body. Best to get like a long handled scrubbing brush to get your back and hard to reach places and again scrub yourself a good 3 or 4 times at least to really get rid of the mess - particularly if you have used dairy products.
When you're cleaning the area you got messy in allow plenty of time. It'll probably take longer to clean the room than it did to get messy in the first place. As already said above, good preparation is key and covering everything up with plastic sheeting helps contain the mess and that'll aid you a great deal when it comes to clean up time.
Also, everything becomes very slippery once you start getting messy so take EXTRA care when you try to get up or move around as it can be lethal! Other than that - happy sploshing!

Hey hey.
I can see it seems to be all men who have replied so far and to be frank safety from their perspective is very different. I have in the last year or so taken the plunge and met 'pie master', 'space wam' a 'gunge her (not on UMD). Happy to chat about what I did to keep myself safe. I rarely log into UMD though- if u have insta I'm @violet.neko_bbw - pls feel free to DM me. If not then DM here, I might be a bit slow though <3

If I had to give advice? Pace yourself. When it comes to wamming, perfecting cleanup is as big a mission as perfecting the mess. One of the biggest rookie mistakes out there is to absolutely get carried away with the shopping, you start letting your naughty bits do the thinking, and suddenly, you come out of the sex fog plastered in gunk, trying to manage a far bigger mess than you had planned for; Being away from home base and a ready supply of both discretion and access to garbage bins amplifies this tenfold.

Don't use any foods you are allergic or have food sensitivity too and if using. Hotel don't use things other people have high likely hood of allergies too
Peanuts, tree nuts, melons etc
When it gets into stream from shower and breath it in can be very dangerous if not deadly

You can never have too many towels!