Is this just me or whenever a "female/woman" pops up on chat talking the talk i immediately become very pessimistic especially when their profiles are only a few days old?
I guess I'm not alone with this one but do we all come across this from time to time?
I could be way off but.........could be an interesting topic.
General rule of the internet- Always be pessimistic about anyone who comes out the blue! (despite the fact that I met my gf in that way- Rules and exceptions etc)
I will chat and I will assume they are telling the truth as sooner or later the truth comes out; either a woman, a man pretending for whatever reason (nefarious or might have trouble engaging so puts up a facade), trying to sell a website (a dominatrix told me my first job was to go to a certain site and pay for it!).
If they are male then the sooner or later say something a woman probably wouldn't say, I generally ask for the truth then but still if there is no harm then no foul and I just don't talk to them again, unless they were pleasant, then where is the harm?
In my experience it's pretty easy to tell when it's a fake profile. For one thing most women don't send sexual messages asking perverted questions to a total stranger. The few times I have had a "woman" do that to me they had images on their profile that were very low resolution and appeared to be stolen.
Some women just don't want to put photos on their profile which is understandable since that can lead to harassment.
What I have also seen on here which I find questionable is when a "guy" who has been a member for less than a week shows up and raves about how amazing a certain model is, especially if the model has been on here for only a week or so. That just seems so fake. There is an adult models forum I use where models admit to making multiple social media accounts posing as fans to promote their own work. They claim it works well but that seems so dishonest to me that I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that.
LeilaHazlett said: What I have also seen on here which I find questionable is when a "guy" who has been a member for less than a week shows up and raves about how amazing a certain model is, especially if the model has been on here for only a week or so. That just seems so fake. There is an adult models forum I use where models admit to making multiple social media accounts posing as fans to promote their own work. They claim it works well but that seems so dishonest to me that I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that.
Well I think we all know that "HappyCamper" is actually Mrs. Bee!
LeilaHazlett said: In my experience it's pretty easy to tell when it's a fake profile. For one thing most women don't send sexual messages asking perverted questions to a total stranger.
This is usually the penny dropping moment! As you say most women really don't tend to act this way.........Guys on the other hand, well............
There seem to be a few reasons for doing it as mentioned above, but I still don't quite understand a guy pretending to be a girl chatting to me! whatever that is, but hey.......
I tend to be honest and wear my heart on my sleeve and it just annoys me a little sometimes.....
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