okay!

so? I Have never been known for lots of FILTHY talk....

there is a reason for this.

Even in bed, before I even FOUND wam? My talk in bed? Has always been with someone I trust and I get off on LOVE TALK. that has always been my jam.

When im fucking on camera and getting dirty? I dont talk a lot...I am enjoying the mess and even after all these years? I still do messes that? to this day? leave me speechless or take my breath...im not thinking about what to say...
Im literally getting messy, enjoying myself and sometimes ill say some shit to the camera that just pops out naturally.

so? when you are getting a video of a gal getting messy and you are looking for joi or an interactive wam experience? I always wonder...

what are the like "go to things" that reallly get you running? when a messy gal looks at the camera and says things to you.

also? DO YOU ALL LIKE TO BE TOLD HOW TO JERK OFF? bc when I do a joi? I tell ya to stroke it hard for me, or slow it down....but like? Do you like it when it gets more descriptive? if so? how so???

I wanna hear if there is a popular opinion on here. I really enjoy making wam videos and i wanna incorporate some FILTHY talk into them.
I usually let my body and just my love for it? do the talking...but i feel like its time for me to learn the fine art of DIRTY TALK bc lets face it.....ITS A TRUE ART FORM!

In real life? Which I havent had sex in so long...lol but? When I do? I like choking, I like some very "different" role play.....(too weird to mention here! ) but? what REALLY gets me going with just plain ol sex? is LOVING TALK.

BUT I WANNA REACH DEEP DOWN INTO THE FILTHY FUCKING ANIMAL I AM AND REALLY GIVE SOME NASTY, FILTHY TALK!

help me out here!! I giggle a lot...and i have had people tell me that turns them off....but that is me being TURNED ON! SO? i cant let go of that. its natural. I can tone it down but when i get off? i get the giggles for a minute and then I get back to business.

anyway.

WHAT IS YOUR THING YOU LOVE TO HEAR A GIRL GETTING MESSY SAY TO YOU. DURING JOI? DURING JUST GETTING MESSY? I WANNA HEAR THE DIRTY DIRTY!!!

MY MOUTH IS GONNA GET AS FILTHY AS MUH BODY! HAHA! I WANNA TRY!

pics below are some naughty vids with me and one with taylor she does a good job talking dirty but sweet. she hasnt gotten super dirty dirty Yet. WELL, she has one I havent posted yet that she is very naughty...but shes that sweet little girl but her moans? oooo weeee. they are real and AMAZING.

JOI's are fun, but I would rather hear the model in a pie vid enthusiastically verbalize their own sensations. Talk dirty about how hot it gets them to be pied, how much they want to be pied and fucked. You probably get the picture.

I find I enjoy narration to be a bit of a turn on where the girl describes what is happening to her, either complaining or bemoaning depending on the situation. Her describing the feel of the mess, where it is going and what is going on in her mind is super hot.

I'm still waiting to see when you're going to post that video of Taylor! Can't wait to see other people react!

I don't like joi personally. I'm more for natural reactions whether she is enjoying it or completely hates it and thinks it's disgusting. I love hearing all about how she is feeling. Yes dirty talk is sexy but forced dirty talk is a turn off. Pure enjoyment and emotion is what I look for. I also love hearing how the mess feels. If she pours or gets something poured inside her clothes and it feels heavy or mushy or runny I want to hear it, This is me and my personal feelings

That's a difficult answer, how about "pie my ass then eat it?" Or smash a pie in my face then fuck it, cum all over it? How "bad" we talking? What won't you say or do?

To me, the stroke talk and sex talk does not do anything. Sometimes it kills the mood. I have gotten in a habit of watching the videos on mute. Sometimes there is background direction, or off camera narrating and it kills it for me. But I know others like it. I do however like the cat fighting type banter. That is all part of the moment so to say. I also like the natural stuff. If you giggle naturally, then do it in the video. If the dirty talk makes the experience better for you, do it. You should be enjoying yourself as much as we are.

I can appreciate the appeal of the virtual generic skype session type videos as well. Something that makes the experience more real for the person watching and activates other senses. I know that I shift from time to time when it comes to things that have to be there for me. Sometimes it is enough just watching. Sometimes reading does it more than watching so I hit up a story. Other times the banter and the actions do it for me and I have videos with that as well. It all depends on what senses need to be activated so to say at that moment.

Looove the filthy talk!!!

Sorry, couldn't help myself...

https://youtu.be/UajzqGVB0rY

I really, really like it when it's completely spontaneous, or when it at least "feels" spontaneous and not staged. Some people can pull it off very naturally. A good example of this for me is the recent Christina Carter mud scene from MudMadPhil. When it doesn't feel natural, I find it a bit of a turn-off and it takes me out of a scene.

To me, the best content doesn't need to have a lot of viewer engagement; interactive dirty talk kinda ruins it. I think the best content is when the creator acknowledges the viewer is there, maybe even starts the video with a greeting, then just goes about their business accepting the voyeurism they're allowing to happen as if the camera and viewer aren't even there. Making a show of looking out for onlookers and such gives us the feeling of what you're doing as being somewhat taboo or a bit of a guilty pleasure... and I'm sure everyone here has been there at some point.

The fact that you ask is proof that you care about your fans. Truly a badass you are, Jayce!

I'm not really super into dirty talk or being told what to do in videos, but if that's your thing, roll with it, as long as a model is getting their hair messy, I really don't care what you say or do A real turn on would be for you to be like "This mess all over my hair feels as good as my ears feel when I blast Mordecai!" and then you blast that song hahah...but yeaaaaaaa not gonna happen lol WAM ON!

Jayce I have talked to you before about this kinda! I consider my self an expert dirty talker, even with an English accent. I talk dirty to all my models and G/F although its filthy 90% of the time it really gets one in the mood.

WAMOptimist93 is right though, if it comes over forced or fake sounding it just does not work. Practice Jayce, stand in front of a mirror naked, tell me what a filthy fuck slut you are, tell me what you wana do, let your mind go and your body will follow. If your not a 100% sure its real, don't do it. You have my number if you want some one on one training, no charge darling.

Phil

I'm LOVING THESE RESPONSES.
I'm seeing a trend that I kiiiinda knew would come on here which is "natural reactions"

Which? Y'all. That's 100 percent what you will always get from me.
I just did one the other day and my camera man stopped the cam and said "ARE YOU DONE YET?!"
No! I wasn't. Bc what I had created was so rad and awesome and I just kept playing and talking about how fucking rad it was. He rolled his eyes and carried on.
But! I really, truly, DO want to LEARN HOW to talk dirty! It's like..I wanna add something else to my sexual arsenal which? Me? I ain't fucking anyone so? My sexual shit is me--when I GET to get filthy with my girls---and YOU ALL! I'm literally having a whole ass sex life with my fans!
Or people who pick up my vids.
So? Just as I would want to please a man in my life (if I had one ) I wanna add some spice to this relationship we all have together!
Kinda like picking up a new skill, ya know? I taught "schmariel" how to deep throat with a bunch of different sized dildos years ago (wish I would have filmed that) and she became a damn expert at it!
I don't want to do it alllll the time but I wanna have some fun with it! Play around and see how I dig it!
The more responses? The better. This is truly helpful! I am so appreciative of you all understanding what im doing here! im a wammer. Just like you. Just so happens I do it on camera. And all of y'all buying my vids? We are connected. I wanna try something new!

Phil? I think your idea is pretty raging . I like it!

Email me some nasty stuff and lemme read if you get time! See if you can make me blush!

I think the more specific the fetish, the easier it is for the dirty talk to flow.

I.e My own one is gold statue transformation and it's so easy to dirty talk it. All you really have to really have a progress of "I look good in gold/being gold is turning me on/i want to be your sex/blowjob/gold statue ect/the gold is making me horny/when i cum i'll freeze into a statue.

It's the fantasy that you want to be a gold statue and locked into permanant orgasm whilst being put on display/used.

I'm a huge fan of dirty talk, mostly pie related.

I commissioned a custom where this was a priority. I wanted to girls to beg to be "Pied in the face" or "Shove that pie in my face" stuff like that.

On a similar note, I LOVE it when a girl is talking and gets cut off mid word with a hard pie in the face. When it happens suddenly the girl is often forced to let out a muffled cry, its amazing!

This has always been my thing too. But I guess that doesn't sell all that well.

I think it's something that comes more natural with people into basically "hate fucking". Otherwise, it's something that needs to be learned, like any form of acting really.

Not really a fan of dirty talk to be honest.

Find it pretty forced, annoying and a turn off.

Rather just a good old fashioned messing with natural laughs and spontaneous additional talk.

I po refer hearing natural giggles from the ladies as well as natural sound if enjoyment. I had one nude piefight custom made and both models cooed and moaned in pleasure as well as giggled throughout. Their sounds of pleasure made the vid extremely HOT!

I don't particularly care for joi, but there are particular kinds of dirty talk (and other verbal things) that drive me nuts. I love hearing a girl complain about the mess, talk about how gross it is, how humiliated she is and really anything else that is degrading to her. Whining and even crying can be a really big turn on for me, although it's easy to go overboard and make it cheesy.

Giggling can be really hot too. Especially nervous laughter or self-deprecating jokes. Not entirely related, bit I also love squealing, squeaking, gasping, groaning, spitting and the general sound of a girl's voice being muffled by slime.

I also just enjoy any situation where a girl is vulnerable. That can definitely include listening to her talk about her fantasies in a humiliating way, but also talk about insecurities, hopes and dreams, especially if she is being tormented with slime or something like a remote control vibrator.

I'm sure I would enjoy you talking about whatever. You're full of personality and I always thought you had a really adorable voice.

In my life without the pies or messy , 50/50. Dependes of the moment, the girl(if she likes dirty talk or not) and the mood. I don't use dirty talk a lot, only when it's necessary.

I like to hear orders "give me that pie now", provocations "for every pie you hit me, I'll hit you too", indirects "when we get home you will see", in wam vids I like to hear spontaneous laughter and moans. This shows that she is enjoying and it is very important for me, I know she can enjoy it without say any word but it's nice to hear some natural laughter and moans.

I like JOI and I wish there was more for pies/messy. I love the count down moment and I imagine the girl saying "I will count down, then you will cum and pie yourself at the same time"

To finish my answer. One thing everyone dreams of hearing, I imagine who enjoys pies/wam would love to hear from the girl/partiner, "I loved the experience, I loved get pied all over and WE GONNA DO IT AGAIN"

This is helpful

it is also helpful in wetlook.
when i came up with the name drenchme? with a friend of mine i had a list (weirdly enough i found it the other day) it had words like "shimmer, cling, glisten, smooth, splash, squelch, shine, heavy, stuck....".lots of other words i cant think of now that were words we thought of when getting wet and describing how it felt...the clothing...
This is what i am trying to get at. Describing my experience....bc i get at a loss for words ....im like "dear god this is SO FUCKING FUN " and just IN IT. my camera man has been cutting off the really good parts. which? he has been told to stop that. When we "cut" is typically when i really get descriptive....like "whoa dude that was the mecca of mud, it was so clean, smooth, bouyant, and i could do a, b, c and d in it!"
same with wetlook.
i wanna incorporate how i truly feel but add a little more GRIT if you know what i mean. Its not for sales. I just wanna be able to do it!
I wanna feel EVEN MORE sexy than I already DO when im covered in mess. I feel like honing another skill in the mess? Keeps it even more interesting! i love gettin messy on cam bc i can watch it later and be like "damn i got to do THAT! look at how RAD THAT LOOKS" and remember all the bits and pieces.

thank you!

I think that could also just be really encouraging to others that may want to try and jump in some mud or something, but never actually set forth and did it.

I agree. I'd much rather see Jayce in the mud describing how it feels, how it is making her feel, where her hands are and why, how she'd love a companion in the mud, what she'd want to do with them, etc. etc.

To me, when I see a photo or video of a girl in a mess, I imagine how they feel. If they actually express it, it's a huge turn-on. Giggling is sexy, and to me, it would only add to an experience.

i actually got in the mud one day....i decided to trash this glorious dress and lingerie.....the dress i had worn in a wetlook scene and it was amazing....and some brand new lingerie that had not been touched....

without even thinking of this thread at all? bc of the situation in the mud? I found myself talking dirty...
what i loved doing...why i loved doing it...then talking to the cam about what i would do if they were there or how badly i wanted someone to do "this and that" to me....

it was completely natural and it just came from the situation in the mud.

I reflected on it later.

It was the situation that brought up that dirty talk...
So? I feel like honing that in some of my videos. taking the situation and speaking of it. Not all of them.....
sometimes I wanna just play and pretend the cam isnt there.
but?
I liked it when i thought back about it. I enjoyed seeing it later....I enjoyed what I said and did bc it made me feel sexy.
all of this is all of us having a fetish, right? Me? I started without the fetish, did it for money once, and fell in love....
so? all of this (bc if you can believe this, i didnt even use my first toy till i was 27 years old!)
all of this? Is a transition, a movement in my fetish. Trying new and different things and sharing my literal GROWTH as a wammer right here.
right on the umd from the first video I have up (which was my first custom) to what im doing now.
all of it is growth.
Dirty talk, I realized is so much more than getting YOU off....its making me feel sexy, wanted, beautiful and bringing up a lot of feels about my body, how I feel about my body, my looks, all of it.
It goes so much deeper than you can imagine!
I had a blast with it and when I post it? I will certainly share the experience with you....
but yeah.
Having body dysmorphia (if anyone has it im SO SORRY) is a real thing...and I found that it helped me SO MUCH to feel comfortable in my skin.
I feel comfortable in mess. We all have our shit though. I found that dirty talk made me truly embrace not only the mess? but MYSELF.
I have reminded myself of that every single time I have shot anything since and its like a pick me up.
Thank you all for commenting! I truly appreciate it bc you all took me on a whole ass journey of mind, body, spirit and wam!
thank you!
xoxo!
love you all SO SO much!
also big ups to mud mad phil who totally cheered me on. i appreciate you, love.

That is the important thing. You do this for the love of it, and if it makes you feel better about your self, that's way more important than sales or fans.

I would just elaborate on the substances and how they feel, and how that makes YOU feel. So you could do the 'Oh, this molasses is so cold and thick' but then continue on, 'and it sticks to my skin and sort of pulls it, like giant lips sucking on my body. Especially in certain places. Oh god, it's fucking me, and I'm loving it. Sinking into it is like letting it have it's way with me, taking me, screwing me, sucking and fucking me, in a cold freezing way which is also fucking hot.'

Ok, you get the idea, just elaborate on the actual sensations and embellish what is really happening with the sexual aspect of how you're feeling.

My 2 cents worth. (can you keep that and put the 2 cents towards a future custom?)