Hillary did an amazing job conveying the misunderstood fetish that is WAM. I am glad noob and I were able to contribute. Hopefully curious others will happen across it and find that it is their thing too!!
messymusic said: Like, it's kind of sad to me when someone tries it and doesn't like it. And as someone pointed out, it doesn't help anyone grasp why exactly this thing is erotic.
That's because nobody ever really does explain it. We all talk about how sexy it is or how it feels great, but very rarely does anyone have a discussion about exactly why that is. The primal satisfaction that WAM brings is really difficult to explain with reason and analogy, especially since there are 2,000 sides to it.