I began wamming just before I reached puberty. The first time I came was the result of playing in some slippery substance and I had no idea what had just happened. I have no idea why I started to want to get messy, but it began as a phycological thing but then quickly turned into a sexual thing.
5/1/26, 9:53am: [admin] Edited post. Please don't mention anything regarding specific ages below 18, even if describing own experiences.
I'd "gunged" myself on the sly, with custard a few times before and through my teens... I had no idea how to bring that subject up with someone else, until I went for it one day at the age of 38 with my wife... we've had messy fun since.
Like Bobographer and Jinx_midnight, I had my first orgasm during one of my very first messy sessions. The two have been intrinsically linked for me ever since. Sadly my wife is not really into WAM, but I was fortunate enough to get messy with several ex-girlfriends, two in particular that were really into it. That said, whilst the sessions DID end in orgasm, it was usually mutual masturbation rather than intercourse, and curiously (for me) my first actual full sexual intercourse was not while getting messy. Despite what I said about my wife, she has got a little messy on a couple of occasions, and one time she even let me squirt cream into her pussy before we fucked, which was of course incredible!!
Interesting. Like others on this thread, my first orgasm (while awake at least) was during a self messing session. It rather took me by surprise at the time! But losing my virginity some years later was mind-blowing enough without over-complicating it with mess. It was not until a couple of years after that that I confessed to the same girl, by then my wife, that I fantasised about covering her in chocolate. Fortunately, rather than being horrified she said "Well, let's try it then", and over twenty years later we're still "trying it" with different messy substances, and having a lot of fun together along the way
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