I'm sure producers buy clothing strictly for wam all the time. I'm just wondering if any of us buy clothes in our personal lives strictly for the purpose of getting messy.

My wife wants to "let go of the rules" for my birthday this year a little. We normally keep wam and sex mutually exclusive activities. However, she is getting much more comfortable with pie and pudding being stuffed in her panties and has come to me with these designs asking if I'll order them for her from like Amazon or somewhere. Cute idea or crazy waste of money?

Yes, all the smart formal shirts i have worn to get wet and messy in the past 8 years have been bought mostly just for that, with the odd being bought for "best" but suffering the WAM fate before the occasion arrived.

If its for your birthday treat yourself and buy them.

I was browsing Temu and discovered transparent PVC briefs, with elastic waists and seams. Ordered a few pairs and can confirm they will effectively contain any substances quite well, and rinse clean easily. They're intended to enclose adult diapers so keep that in mind when sizing.

I use my regular clothes for WAM, but I've definitely thought about how I was going to use the clothing before buying it... and I've bought more than a few things I might not have otherwise just for that purpose.

Some of the boots that went into my river only did that a few times before falling apart (less than quality construction there!) so footwear has been bought just for that purpose. Even quality shoes have a short lifespan when you hang out in swamps.

Not what we had in mind. She loves to sit on a pie or as we have started affectionately calling it "giving a lapdance to a pie" with a bit of ending up inside her panties. "Diaper play" would have her freaked out.

Thanks for your input. We don't use any shoes or such as we only wam at home. In the early years of our now 20+ year relationship, we established quickly that because of her sensitivity to smells and her very delicate skin, it would have to be sweet foods and usually just vanilla flavors. We were both surprised that banana cream pies were her favorite thing. She'll sit in one while giving me a lapdance, then take another one or two while we fool around. It's only been recently that she established she enjoys the feel of it inside her panties, but worries about her lady bits. Also, it's always been older clothes we knew we were gonna toss out. So buying stuff strictly for mess has either been from the really cheap stores or Black Friday deals. Only once has it been a costume and she admitted afterward that she only did it becauseshe didn't like the actual costume.

The custom clothing is a cool idea- go for it!


Ask your partner to take a read of the spotless sploshing blog; https://www.spotlesssploshing.com/post/vaginas-wam-how-to-have-fun-while-avoiding-infections-irritation-more

[You should probably read it too if you haven't already, it's a goldmine of useful tips and tricks]

Oddly enough, we read this or something similar recently and it is the reason she allows things to get inside her panties. Stil doesn't mean she wants to get it inside of herself. I'm happy she is willing to just get messy at all.

1st - Yes, I've bought various clothes for WAM. Something enjoyable for me about brand new white spandex and getting it muddy - knowing it will never be that pristine white again. Though several other pieces I've bought (usually black colors) actually washed up perfectly fine and were 100% wearable / normal, afterward.

2nd - How is this even a question!?!? The wife wants you to buy panties for her while getting messy. The ONLY answer is, [very enthusiastically] "Hell yeah, honey! Sit down here with me and lets order! Anything else catch your eye? Anything else special you want for other occasions? This looks like it would go good with chocolate, this with vanilla, this with jlube, here is something cute to wear in the mud, etc"

If she is opening up you gotta hit that with 100% enthusiasm, appreciation and admiration for her, or she's likely to decide it's not that big of a thing and shut it off!

PS - if she is worried about 'things inside' - maybe start with jlube or nuru to get a 'feel' for it, before moving on to other things.

Before anyone thinks I'm not enthusiastically grabbing these and then some, it's my wife who thought we were being crazy and wasn't sure it was the best idea. Now that she's talked about it and seen some replies here, she is really looking forward to it. Still a couple of weeks away, but we ordered a few pairs of panties with different "instructions" on them, a couple of tank tops and she found herself a cute little sundress to wear on the actual day.

We've never been put off by wam at all and after 20+ years together, even with the usual age and health related things that come our way, we remain excited about our life, both in and out of our bedroom.

Cute idea!!!! Happy birthday!

We buy clothes exclusively for wam.. cheap mostly from amazon or shein. However I bought her a Mud wrestling t-shirt from the merch store of the world famous pom pom that she wears around our friend and family.. (no one knows in my entourage about all the fun stuff we've been at ) so that hiding in plain sight plus the sexy nod she gives me knowing well how turned on I am by mud wrestling makes us perfect partners in crime. That t-shirt is not getting dirty. But makes my head spin when she wears it and she knows it

My wife used to early on when first "dating" ie she wanted to see other people and I was just for sex, would buy cheap skimpy dresses she had never worn. (She didn't own sexy undies or bras when we first met)

now I guess I have to buy stuff for sessions, but she has endured a lot of way worse messes as we have been together for ever now.
Once she came home and let me use all the Japanese nuru gels and creams on her work clothes in the tub.

Oh and I was allowed to put cakes into her very old underwear (they had holes all over them) so she said if I bought 3 new ones per one per panty filing I'd be allowed to. They had to end on her head after being filling w pie and cake pieces

Over the years we've bought quite a few bits of clothing just for using in messy sessions. I'm a big fan of swimsuits so we've gained a bit of a collection of those plus a few other outfits we've bought because they'd just be fun to get messy in. In fact both the white t-shirts in our gunge tank demo videos were bought specially for their gunge recieving qualities.

In my early WAM play dates I can't believe how much I spent not on my clothes, but rather on the women's outfits who were playing with me. I felt obligated since it was my "thing". I use to say "I pie, I buy."

Over the last 10-15 year or so I haven't had to buy a thing. I have no idea what changed, but all the different "friends" always have something they "think would be perfect" and they are almost always right.

On at least two occasions I have actually said "are you sure?" because what they were wearing at least LOOKED expensive. As I have always said, women will ruin expensive dresses./clothes with the one exception of their shoes. $300 dress? No problem. $50 pair of their fave pumps?

No way.

Robby

I do like that when someone wants something specific (I am doing this for my own enjoyment; knowing what people like is fine, but doing those things... that approaches custom territory, and I'm not in that business... or any business! )


My favored brand of shoes... just doesn't survive well. I would get 2-3 days in the river, most times, and then they'd fall apart.

That definitely takes some of the fun out of it!

If other things are more durable - and potentially replaceable - I'm definitely putting them on the line!

If it is something you can afford to destroy, do it! The experience is worth it.

most defiantly buy clothes specifically for wam as well as using my every day / going out stuff,
after a while you get to know what you like from clothes and which ones would make great splosh items,
could be how they will hold stuff in or what they will feel like when weighted down with messy stuff etc

with the panties you shown and the mention of her liking panties being filled you probably want a fuller knicker, other way would be a lacier version of the thong so the mess can be squelched in from sitting or throwing.

looking at the designs they seem like plain items with logos printed on them, better off getting those from a regular shop where she can either try them on or has already previously had a similar pair / dress so she knows they fit, some of the online print shops or online cheap retailers can have odd sizing

charity shops are great for splosh stuff because you can find a great array of fancy, normal and sexy items that you can imagine what they would be like sploshed

something that i like is to go out wearing something i want to get rid of, then go clothes shopping for a splosh outfit and throw the old stuff away or donate it to a charity shop, then you go home or where ever and splosh it, if you shopping with your partner its really sexy esp if you both go food shopping for stuff on the way home in your new outfits

one of my favs is to walk home in that new outfit from the supermarket pouring stuff down my cleavage and over the dress as i walk home.

And they say chivalry is dead.

Usually I buy something I'd like to get muddy in, and after a session or two, if it cleans up well enough it goes into my normal pool of casual clothes. It gives me a thrill picking gear on the basis of how badly it'll get trashed

But I have also bought things exclusively to WAM in, like the denim jacket I saw in a vintage clothing rack, or the bargain white Levis that didn't stay white for very long.

I get an extra thrill from wearing something I WAM'd thoroughly out in public again, knowing nobody can tell but me (or my partner, when I happen to have one on hand! )

I absolutely love reuse, so I never use terms like trash or destroy - in theory, if something was given to me for that purpose, that would be different, but it's always more fun for me when things survive.

I don't think I have ever specifically bought something just to be Pied in.
I buy PVC/Rubber/Leather to wear and I wear that clothing all the time now.... Unless I'm at work (sometimes I sneak some Rubber pantaloons on under my work clothes).
Anyway.....
The clothes and outfits that I normally wear and like wearing, just happen to be what I like to be wearing when I get hit with Pies.
Sometimes I'll see something and buy it because I want to get Pied wearing it, but I have never just gone out to buy something specifically for a Pieing.
Also because of my kink...
I have to be wearing Rubber/Leather/PVC to enjoy being Pied.
If I was dressed and jeans and a t-shirt out in public and someone hit me in the Face with a Cream Pie, it would do absolutely nothing for me at all. NOTHING!
Put me in some Rubber pantaloons, Leather pants and a PVC shirt+jacket+hat....... and someone hits me in the Face with a Cream Pie and I will have a Piegasm every time.

Psst Robby, you want your end quote outside of what you type, not inside .

We love messing and trashing nice leather. Thrift stores are a great place to pick up very nice and cheap high end things. We have definitely bought these things knowing full well they are not lasting much longer

My wife and I buy kink and fetish wear all the time with it being known how they will end up, she will so thrown a few items of regular clothing off to the side for play time as well. We also have gone to a thrift store with the intention of buying play clothing.

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