I've found the opposite, am a massive fan of women wearing stockings, because I love the feel of them, and tights have to be removed. Because it's rare to see nowadays, and usually a lot of begging involved to get someone to wear stockings or lingerie, all my previous partners have asked me to wear them as well, personally doesn't really do anything for me
One girl's experience: never happened to me. I don't know if it's common. I'm also kinda petite and the guys I've been with are not nearly as small as me so wearing my underwear would seemingly be very uncomfortable for them. But I don't suspect it was the sizing that stopped them?
I would say if you are happy for him to wear your lingerie then go for it. If not, why not go shoping together and buy some matching lingerie for each of you. I had a girlfriend who suggested we go out and buy matching panties for us to wear when we had sex in the shower. It was a real turn on for both of us. I had been wearing panties to get messy and wet and messy in for ages. There are a lot of men who love the feeling panties give when messy, very different to mens underwear. Wearing yours probably gives him an even bigger turn on.
I know your asking help from the girls but i thought i'd toss my 2 cents in:
If there is something you want to do but arent sure that your boyfriend would be willing, perhaps you could be open-minded and see if he'd be willing to do something you want if you do this for him.
sammiegirlx1 said: My boyfriend usually likes to get me messy in lingerie but today he just asked if I could get him messy while wearing my lingerie!
The way you've phrased this, it's actually rather ambiguous... but I'm going to assume, as has everyone else, that he didn't want you to dress up in your lingerie and get *him* messy -- he wanted to dress up in it himself and get messy.
I think there's a lot of crossover between WAM and crossdressing... some of it perhaps the result of men deciding that if they can't find a woman to get messy, they'll *be* the woman who gets messy. Also, IMHO there's just something inherently different (more sensual and alluring, maybe?) about female WAM compared to male WAM, and I think some men want to try to experience that role reversal. But what do I know?
In my experience, it's relatively common (at least within the context of a relationship) for women to want men to dress up in their (women's) underwear... perhaps it's an intimacy/vulnerability thing? I've had a handful of girlfriends over the years express an interest in that. The first time I was asked was when I was in college, and I put my foot in my mouth by asking my then-girlfriend, who was *much* smaller than me, "Won't you be kind of depressed if it fits?"
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