TwentyTenFive said: I generally come on here to read the forums, Look at what other people are up to make the odd comment here and there, Occasional private message to if something is interesting.

I am probably in the smaller group on here that don't like mess on them, But do like to dish out to the ladies I've been involved with other the years, i have a dominant demeaner and also use sites like Fetlife as well as many other sites in the past

PotatomanK said: Yes, you have had a rough bout recently. Same answer, the people. The RL friends I've made here, some of home have helped me through some VERY tough times. Some who I still talk to regularly, and some not so much anymore.

The people here have been very welcoming, very kind, and very caring. And without some of them, in the past 7 years or so, I might not be here today.

Wishing you all the very best my friend.

RevSlymsford said: The feel good element for me, at the moment Jay, is seeing such a great post from you.

I've missed seeing you post around the forums, and it's now clear you've been through a huge amount.

It's great to hear that things are slowly looking up (like a girl in a gungetank who's about to be slopped)

It's so great to hear that UMD, and the scenes therein, was a place that brought you solace during the toughest times. I can't speak for anyone else, but for me as a content creator, knowing my work brings people happiness is a huge part of why I do what I do.

Anyway it's so great that you are back and I look forward to seeing more posts from you soon

ItsMessyJay said: Hello everyone.

So, the last 5 years for me have been very, very challenging. I lost my my Mum, Grandad, I lost my job of 10 years and my editing job of 4 years, as well as loosing some friends.

I hit the drink, a lot (I only drink a few beers on a weekend now) but ultimatly lost my apartment.

Now, things are slowly looking up.

My question is, why do you love the UMD?

For me, its just escapism. Coming here, seeing awesome new content made by awesome models and prducers, seeing things I could only wish I could do, things like that.
Getting messy, for me, is about "Letting go"...Just forgetting about every day life and your problems, just for a little while, and watching people make an absolute mess. Everyone on here loves to get messy, for the sexual side of things, just enjoying the texture or as a job. Whatever the reason, it makes them, and us smile and laugh. Its just feel good.

But, my absolute favorite part of this site, is the people. Hardly anyone judges, almost everyone is welcoming and just gives a sort of "Off topic" feeling away from everyday life.

This site, the people and the scene as a whole was there for me, to escape during the most darkest, stressful parts of my life.

Love you all. Hope to read some feel good stories.