Does anyone here have their significant other on this forum as well?

Yep!

Obviously



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Thinking about telling mine about this place not sure if he would share pics but he enjoys it as well

I wish!

They not into it?

Yes she is.

Mine looks at her pics I post I think she gets confidence boost w the likes but she won't get an account

Not at all. Back when we were dating a tried spraying some whipped cream on her during sex and she wanted to take a shower immediately. I didn't tell her my fetish, but i told her that using whipped cream was something I wanted to try and she was ok to try it. She is just not very adventurous in bed.

NO wish she did then I would have more fun

No. because nobody wants me.

No, but she is aware of the place and has had a browse now and again when I've left the laptop open

Yep, although I don't think she's been on the forum in a long time.

Yep but no one knows I am with her

Including her?

No, I don't think she'd really be comfortable with some of the more hardcore content. She is vaguely aware of it though - so don't know if she's ever stopped by for a browse without my knowledge!

It's kind of strange how comfortable you get looking at some of the more hardcore stuff when you browse here for a while. When I was younger, I was repulsed by some of it, but now, it takes a lot to make me uncomfortable (probably scat or actual physical harm). I think this is probably an example of Systematic Desensitization:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systematic_desensitization

So if you want her to do some more hardcore stuff, you should start exposing her to the more minor stuff and gradually ratchet up the intensity

I had an ex who posted and even made quite a few pic sets, but that was almost 12 years ago.

Yes. But she almost never uses it. This kink is really my thing and our way of sharing it is by her modelling. She'll look in at the fan comments occasionally but that's about the extent of her online involvement. During the DeviantArt days of posting pics she was a lot more communicative (and is a great photographer in her own right and among those used to take a lot of self-portraits, some with a bit of nudity) - but became disillusioned by the a whole being sent pictures of cocks thing. (Top Tip: if you really want to impress a lady online, unless requested in no uncertain terms, please resist cock sendage - surprisingly it doesn't attract them - no matter how big or erect it is. Oh, and by not directly requesting a cock picture they're not saying "I'm a bit coy, actually and want you to send me a picture of your cock, really". It's genuine ambivalence!)

We went to a Bristol Splunch together last year and I really hope we'll attend another this year. So, ironically, you're more likely to meet her in person than online.

This almost reads like she didn't enjoy all those photos of my cock .... but, of course, that'd be absurd!

So, you're Mr 'Clenched Fist' Cock?

To be honest, neither of us (unless she's really been hiding that side of herself from me!) are particularly 'hardcore' people - I lean towards the fun/silly side of wam - but you tend to bump into it on here whether you want to or not, and like you I've found myself becoming desensitised to it. I even found myself buying the odd BJ scene a while back, which I would never have done ten years ago, though they didn't do much for me. My wife naked and covered in custard is already more than I could have dreamed of a while back, so I wouldn't dare dream of asking for more!

My fiancee humours me, doesn't mind making me messy - as she likes to be a domme, but isn't interested in getting messy herself.