Quick question,I see alot of people on here that are not wam models that have no problem showing there face,I was just wondering if anyone would be paranoid about somebody recognizing them,id like to post a pic of the real me,the face behind the mess but im nervious that some body would know me,any advice on this would be very much appreciated,thanks for taking the time to read this
I've been thinking about this issue, and so far I haven't quite got comfortable with the idea of putting photos up. I do tend to be on the shy side and not much into exhibitionism though, so I can understand why that varies between people. Having said that, it seems possible to set your posts to be visible only to logged-in members, and it may be that anyone who finds themselves browsing WAM sites isn't going to be too freaked out if they see you on here, as they're already here themselves. If I ever do put pictures or video of myself up, it would be at the less explicit end. It might be fun to take some pictures on a mud trip (especially as I enjoy seeing other people's shots), but I don't know if I'd want to do close=up crotch shots or anything like that.
Not so much, my avatar is an adorable potato, but I have pics up on my profile. I guess for me, I'm not worried because I'm at a point in my life where I don't care. I don't have anything to really "hide" from anyone. Granted, it's not something I shout from the rooftops, but it's "MY" fetish. Some people feel differently because they may have something to lose, jobs, typically. Ultimately, you need to decide what is comfortable for you and go with that. Best wishes to you!
I can say that as someone who shows their face on here, and who has lived in areas where there are many other wammers, that not once have I been recognized. And I have one or the more standoffish not so easy to hide hair cuts that could give me away. There are probably 3 reasons for not being called out that could apply to anyone on here.
1) I'm pretty sure that either WAM is too obscure of a fetish and there aren't any people around to recognize me.
2) People might THINK I look like a person they saw on here, but there are lots of people in the world, and would rather not risk saying anything.
3) They do recognize me but going, "Hey! You are that girl who covers herself in buckets of slime!" would reveal just as much about themselves in that instant. Blackmail about fetishes can go both ways, as they would have to admit having it in order to say anything.
I'm even guilty of these. I planned to meet up with a friend from here at a con. Even knowing what he looked like I stalked him for a good hour before approaching simply because I didn't want to make a mistake and call out to someone if I wasn't sure it was them. Once I was sure of it, I went over to introduce myself in person. It took him a good while into our conversation before it clicked in his head who I was.
Hey I was very nervous about people seeing me and maybe someone recognising me. (I know I'm not so famous) Then I thought I live in the valleys and there is an extremely low possibility of someone saying oh you're so and so's boy. So do what you can how you like it's all up to you and if you're that nervous or shy then feel free to censor your pics and edit your vids. I'm still a little shy though I may not seem it or it's very noticeable but only my two besties know about me being a wammer don't really know how others would react.
I worry about showing my whole face online, but not as much about messy pictures or half-shots (e.g., my avatar is me, but I assume a lot of dudes have a half-face like mine).
The primary thing to worry about is exif data. GPS location tags are still making it into personal picture albums. Meaning, if you post your picture using the wrong software, your precise location can be found and you can be identified. Having a revealed facial picture embedded with exif data would make doxxing both easy and potentially catastrophic.
The advantages of wigs and makeup. If anyone ever walked up to me and said "your Judy from the umd," I would be super impressed. If you all see me in Vegas this May feel free to say, "I know who you are." When I have transformed for the 1st time with someone they are amazed. At least that is what they have all told me. In my everyday life, I am often confused for a person think they know.
Thanks for all the advice,I really appreciate it,so I just thought fuck it,I posted a pic of me clean on my profile,if by some slim chance somebody I know recognize me there on here too,if not they may be curious about the whole wam thing
Submissivewamslave said: Thanks for all the advice,I really appreciate it,so I just thought fuck it,I posted a pic of me clean on my profile,if by some slim chance somebody I know recognize me there on here too,if not they may be curious about the whole wam thing
Fred! Holy shit, this is going to be awkward at work tomorrow.
Submissivewamslave said: Thanks for all the advice,I really appreciate it,so I just thought fuck it,I posted a pic of me clean on my profile,if by some slim chance somebody I know recognize me there on here too,if not they may be curious about the whole wam thing
Fred! Holy shit, this is going to be awkward at work tomorrow.
What can i say. i have a style that even my friends can find me at concert of 50'000 people... i wont be missed, unfortunately i'm the only one of my kind in my area