I'm in the final stages of getting my own place, about 30 minutes from Bristol, where I'll finally have space for both a dedicated Gunge Tank room (see my pics/videos for past builds) and a BDSM playroom.
The flat's a bit of a fixer-upper, so I've got some work ahead before it's guest-ready, but I'm hoping to find a few playmate or two to keep me motivated (And so my ADHD doesn't get side tracked to other projects), both as encouragement to finish the rooms and as friendly "peer pressure" to get them done!
In the meantime, it'd be great to meet up for a vanilla coffee or drink to vibe-check and get to know each other before any play happens. You can find out more about me in my extensive profile where there are also clean and messy pics of me both in my regular male form and my femme alter ego.
A few ideas I've been considering for the Gunge Tank room:
1. Gunge Tank Games Night: a few local playmates (male, female or trans) compete on a board game or other gameshow format with the loser going in the tank!
2. Shopping & Sploshing: For female playmates: we shop for an outfit, I'll pay for it but you'll try to save from the mess... The messy games are up to you to choose from.
3. Mistress Elise Returns: I used to - a decade ago - run CrossDressMess .com as my femme alter ego, Elise Wood. I'm not looking to go pro again, but I've thought about getting dressed up (and messed up) with others for fun amateur shoots -- dress code required: nothing casual! Two girls (T-girls and/or genetic girls) face off to ruin each other's outfits in the tank.
I'm also open to your own messy or kinky ideas - I'm a Switch and always up for creative play.
The closer you are, the better - I'm mainly looking for regular local playmates once everything's built but if I do go and create a new trans-friendly site then we'll see about one off guest shoots.
If this sounds like your kind of fun, message me with a quick intro: what caught your interest, any ideas you'd like to try, any additional non-messy kinks you'd also like to try and your limits.
Alternatively for the "save the outfit" style games the player could be playing to save their new outfit but if they win choose to either get gunged in some older outfit they brought with them or just take off what they want to save from the mess - whichever option they are happiest/most comfortable with.
Some games for board game night can still work for whoever gets gunged - for instance Mouse Trap works well for building tension and is a game you can't deliberately lose.
And finally if it is any of the games in which I'm playing along dressed up as Miss Elise again then I am quite happy to try avoid the slop myself as I now like playing the bitchy Domme that gets away with it and ridicules the loser. Indeed then people may want to try and play to get their own back.
This sounds amazing! I have always liked mixing a bit of play with lots of mess Bondage added on is icing on the cake I would love to chat maybe ideas if thats ok?
Creativethinking21 said: This sounds amazing! I have always liked mixing a bit of play with lots of mess Bondage added on is icing on the cake I would love to chat maybe ideas if thats ok?
Sure, feel free to drop me a DM, I'm slowly working my way through all the recent DMs so please bear with me if there is a delay.
To anyone else that has left a comment and is interested do please also drop a DM if I've missed you - it is accidental switching back between screens to see who I've replied to or not. Thanks
Hoping to have my own place sometime in the new year and also with that some freedom. Wouldn't be too far to travel after the boat crossing would love to try your ideas
messymissmia said: For the messy games night, would there be a messy forfeit for the loser of each game, and then an even messier forfeit for whoever has lost the most games?
Probably not for the Messy Games night as it would incentivise losing too much and also people would need to bring a number of changes of clothes as the games themselves may not take place in the gunge tank room - there may be a small "walk of shame" to the tank.
However I am also considering creating a studio where we would be shooting all day (rather than an evening) where we would have multiple games through out the day and the ultimate loser getting all the leftover mess. I was going to call it the Gunger Games and centre it around a bunch of gameshow ideas with lots of build up to a messy climax rather than jump straight into the mess quickly. Essentially a messy version of Lost Bets . com. Though this would be for shooting content to be sold - to try make back the expenses.
So in the past couple of days I have been able to exchange contracts and get the keys to the new place. About 3 weeks later than planned. Now for the work to begin doing it up to an appropriate standard.
Apologies to new messages this past week, have been sidetracked by the exchanges but shall try catch up with everyone by the end of the weekend.
Roball said: Any progress? Hoping the house purchase went well...
Some small progress. The purchase went through but I totally underestimated the amount of renovation work needed - we have just started re-wiring the place - and it will probably be more like 4-6 months before I can invite anyone around.
I had been meaning to post an update here as the number of DMs got overwhelming for my ADHD to update people. Thanks for asking and I hope you have had a Happy New Year.
Hi I live in Bristol am also looking for a regular play mate. I love ur ideas and ur profile and think we could get along just fine, would be super happy to meet sometime sending a DM now
Just a quick message to thank everyone that has sent messages.
As mentioned in the gameshow thread currently going through some health issues and I only get a short time window to respond to messages here each day and given the number of recent messages it'll take me a few days to get through them all. Please be patient, I will get through them all eventually. Trying to go through them first come first served for fairness.
Love you, too
sending a DM now
