I assume TaraG was a scammer seeing that the profile "was removed" rather than deleted.
I must admit though that talking to them they were very convincing; well spoken, good back story etc. The only thing dodgy was that they were insistent that I described the scene they wanted to shoot even though I knew nothing about them. Almost like they were getting off on others ideas. Doesn't really work when I'm ace and kept throwing it back to them.
But I don't see the point of that, be honest and roleplay! Hell I've had online fun with a few people (who said they were fems but who cares really if we both enjoyed it). Did anyone else chat with them and did they try a cash scam or some such thing to get removed?
Just curious really as I didn't chat to the "Bex" profile a couple of weeks back (had the same thing, woman seeking fun, with added pictures).
Stevolution2018 said: There not scammers, just sad twats that sit at home, cock in hand, and have nothing better to do (including finding a real woman )
Whoever that was, they will be back.
If you are looking for a partner, you are probably far better off just using a dating website and when you find yourself a fun new partner, its highly likely they will be up for messy fun anyway.
I met Tara (StickyTara) in the pub, and I told her about messy fun a few weeks into the new relationship. She thought it sounded like great fun and here we are still going 20 years later.
You mean to say it wasn't actually a woman!? I feel hurt, used and betrayed.
Tried dating sites but I found honesty only gets you so far. I got removed from Tinder for having a pg messy picture (while others just use it to get instagram hits). Maybe OKcupid is more kink-friendly
As for "not a scammer", I would argue that if they received something through dishonesty then that is a scammer. Not just money (which I did mention to "her" at the start).
Silver_sea said: I assume TaraG was a scammer seeing that the profile "was removed" rather than deleted.
I must admit though that talking to them they were very convincing; well spoken, good back story etc. The only thing dodgy was that they were insistent that I described the scene they wanted to shoot even though I knew nothing about them. Almost like they were getting off on others ideas. Doesn't really work when I'm ace and kept throwing it back to them.
But I don't see the point of that, be honest and roleplay! Hell I've had online fun with a few people (who said they were fems but who cares really if we both enjoyed it). Did anyone else chat with them and did they try a cash scam or some such thing to get removed?
Just curious really as I didn't chat to the "Bex" profile a couple of weeks back (had the same thing, woman seeking fun, with added pictures).
Gosh I'm sorry genuinely for this it sucks. It makes me realise I was so trusting on here back In 2004 when I met James...I never thought anything of it and I guess I would do now...I hope I would. Thankfully he was a genuine guy and we were together for three years but gosh he could of been an axe murderer
I met Richard at Salsa lol and told him everything. If he didn't like it he wasn't for me . Thankfully he was cool with it. He kisses my feet and I ask him do you have a foot fetish and his answer he loves everything about me
There are Dating sites for Fetishes but some are dodge at best... I was looking at a few but I was not prepared to spend big bucks on them. Some do cater for Splosh/Wam and please be aware some people are not who they say they are. Some of the sites are HOAX and just drink your money for no return. I got sucked into one of these sites years ago. They said spend $xx to chat with X then no response. I saw a few different profiles but nothing is true, on some that I saw. I don't know OKcupid as a site so I cant say any thing about it but others YES!! Some better known sites are best to look at as well.
Silver_sea said: Maybe OKcupid is more kink-friendly
Friendly, ish, but not in a way that would actually help you find people with similar interests.
WAM is a small part of my life but I would include it for full disclosure, along with being poly and Ace. This limits the amount of people that would be interested so I tend to avoid dating sites. All kink specific ones i have seen have been shell websites for a data harvesting company that charge while offering nothing. Kind of lose hope over time.
Cinq and Soug said: Gosh I'm sorry genuinely for this it sucks. It makes me realise I was so trusting on here back In 2004 when I met James...I never thought anything of it and I guess I would do now...I hope I would. Thankfully he was a genuine guy and we were together for three years but gosh he could of been an axe murderer
I met Richard at Salsa lol and told him everything. If he didn't like it he wasn't for me . Thankfully he was cool with it. He kisses my feet and I ask him do you have a foot fetish and his answer he loves everything about me
No issue, i assumed she was a scammer from the start, but had hopes. I even offered her a session in my gunge tank for free which was how we got talking.
I remember your first post (you haven't changed much). I replied to it but we lived too far apart for anything to happen. Glad you found someone