I have a new girlfriend and i've told her about my fetish, however I want to show her a video first as an example, try and get her into the whole idea of it: something fun : pies/desserts etc - ideally male/female to get her interested : any recommendations?
My advice would be a video where the girl isn't too sexy. It should be about the mess and the fun, and not about the girl in the video. Many women would feel jealous if the girl in the video you show her is quite sexy. A more 'plain jane' might make this more acceptable, as the focus is on the fun of wamming.
I have a new girlfriend and i've told her about my fetish, however I want to show her a video first as an example, try and get her into the whole idea of it: something fun : pies/desserts etc - ideally male/female to get her interested : any recommendations?
SStuff said: Many customers have emailed me over the years, telling me my videos were the "gateway" for their significant other. Take that for what it's worth.
A previous girlfriend of mine accidentally hit the play button on my laptop and fired up one of Rich's DVD's (remember those?!?!). I completely flipped out when I heard it. She thought the scene (the wedding dress scene from SS78) was hilarious.
I had no intention of revealing WAM to her (at least at that point), but after that, the whole thing was out in the open and (because she was a champ) I was pouring a bucket of slime over her head two weeks later at her mom's while her mom was out of town.
For this particular endeavor, I think SlapstickStuff is
Something from Jessie or Maria! They're both adorable girls who make WAM look like the most crazy and fun thing you could ever do. Even when their vids veer sexier, they're still always in the spirit of a having a fun time. Both ladies have lovely personalities that shine on camera and feel relatable, and most importantly, they come across as girls who are truly enjoying what they are doing rather than models who have been paid to be in a directed scene. That's my take, as a lady!
Though there are many amazing videos out there, but I would not show her a vid in an attempt to explain.
You may get extremely lucky (like 1 in a million) and find one she 'absolutely loves', but unless she shares the 'exact' 100% identical fetish, there may be some obscure thing she doesn't like and that will be a sticking point FOREVER!
Maybe she doesn't care for what ever substance, the color of it, the texture, the amount, or it reminds her of a bad experience. Maybe she doesn't find the girl/guy attractive, maybe they do something she doesn't like ... there are about 999,999 things which could be a turn off.
Instead, show her yourself. Have a nice night out, or even take a couples weekend to get away. Let the romance build a little. Start out conventionally, then introduce something a little messy and see how it goes.
Truthfully, I would never actually mention a fetish as it always seems to go back to my point above... million to one shot. I usually wait for a night of romance and start with a little body massage. Get a nice flavored oil that tastes as great as it feels. Warm it up, apply a little, massage a little. Squirt out a little more, massage a little more. ...maybe the cap falls off the bottle and you pour out a nice slick puddle to slip around in. If the girl freaks out, there probably isn't much hope. But if she gets into the sensual feeling, you can likely go a lot further. If you're more dessert oriented, maybe replace the oil with chocolate or whipped cream or even marshmallow fluff. But IMHO, the video watching would come much later - once you confirm she is into it and want to expand. Not as a way to introduce.
**Standard disclaimer - I am not an attorney, this should not be construed as legal advice, though I did stay at a Holiday Inn last week. **
Lenny's Ass Cream Pies series, video 200 on Excessive Mess with Ava getting fucked in the ass by two strap-ons. Anything else will look mild in comparison, lol.
Firstly, as others have suggested, clips that are more 'fun' (and therefore more approachable) or classy and burlesque like Mrs Bee (part of a couple) and PiedPinups. If you have any of the older Splosh scenes, they have a very warm quality about them - as was intended.
Keep it brief. Complete WAM scenes feel surprisingly long when you've got someone else watching them with you - (they may never before have seen such lingering shots over a pie in the face).
Be lighthearted about it and don't get cross if they laugh in the wrong places.
I edit small theatrical scenes my wife can show her close friends (who know what we do) to introduce them and make it...not so weird-looking.
This old clip got us interest from a TV researcher who thought (as part of their show about introducing 'unadventurous couples' to crazy fetishes) this showed the lighter side an audience could relate to and a fun 'chemistry' between us.
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