As a full time cross dresser i'm always wearing dresses etc so my question is whats sexy for a guy to wear for splosh fun times
one thing i would also like to know on the underwear side of things, what would the male equivalent of a short black lacy slip be?
this is specifically for guys as guys rather than guys or gals in female clothes i guess you can also include girls to dress as guys too
3/20/26, 8:19am: [Admin] Gender tag changed to n/a, as the question can be answered by people of any gender, who may all have different views on what is a good sploshing outfit for a man to wear.
3/20/26, 8:16am: gender changed from female to n/a
It depends on how you define splosh activitis... If I just want to swim, I like to wear a jockstrap, tight Levi's 501s, sneakers, and a t-shirt. If I want to have fun (sex) in the water (which is also splosh activitis), I like to wear high-quality sexy underwear, tight sexy jeans or tight leather jeans (sometimes both), heavy leather boots, a t-shirt, a hoodie, a cool belt, and a denim or leather jacket. The splosh activitis and the fun then take place underwater. Like I said... it all depends on the definition of splosh activitis.
I do find it fascinating the connection between wamming and clothing fetish, and how different it can be for all of us. How what turns someone on can have absolutely no effect, or even be a turn off for others.
I know for me the idea of getting messy but in the wrong clothing is a big no-no. I would rather not wam, than to wam in the wrong clothes. Is that strange?
I absolutely love the idea of jumping into the mud wearing something skin tight and stretchy, like a cycling skinsuit, or going for a dip in the river wearing running leggings and a rashvest or skin tight t shirt, but the idea of doing the same in a business suit, or a pair of jeans and a hoody, no way. Baggy just doesn't do it for me. Many layers also turn me off.
Also being naked has no attraction for me. I tried skinny dipping once, didn't really enjoy it. But walking into a lake after a long cycle, wearing all the lycra, was a wonderful experience.
Is anyone else actively turned off when they see wam scenes where someone isn't wearing the clothes they really like?