There have many threads over the years with people asking for advice on how to tell their partner about their fetish. And I know for many of us, myself included, the road to sharing our love of wam with the love of our life has been a long and tortuous one. However, I also know that there are those among us who are far more bold.
So I was wondering, excluding times when you've met up with someone specifically for the purpose of getting messy: what's the quickest you've ever gone from meeting/getting together with someone, and wamming with them? Has anyone ever wammed on a first date or one night stand?! I would love to hear your stories of quick-fire wamming.
When I was doing the online dating thing, there wasn't a single woman who said no to trying out some messy activity with me. Usually the conversation went there fairly early on, not sure if any were on the first date, but for sure by the 2nd or 3rd one. I am now married and my wife loves wam as much as I do. The secret is good communication.
Bobographer said: When I was doing the online dating thing, there wasn't a single woman who said no to trying out some messy activity with me. Usually the conversation went there fairly early on, not sure if any were on the first date, but for sure by the 2nd or 3rd one. I am now married and my wife loves wam as much as I do. The secret is good communication.
Fantastic to hear - 2nd or 3rd date is pretty speedy by my standards! Amen to the bit about good communication - luckily I learnt that lesson in the end.
For a while I had surprisingly good luck arranging blind WAM sessions via dating sites, Craigslist, etc., where our first meeting was also our first messy session... so I've had around 30 WAM partners where we were getting messy within an hour of our first face-to-face meeting.
That was a more innocent and trusting time, though, and frankly it's surprising in retrospect that I never got catfished or murdered.
I've kind of got a reverse version of this. Fifteen years ago I met Lady Jasmine and we became friends, and started shooting WAM scenes. But strictly professional, friends, business colleagues, nothing more. We both had other relationships at the time. I've been single for the last 10 years, she's been single for the last 7 or so. But we both assumed the other wouldn't be interested in a relationship, though we've been planning for her to do more scenes for a long while. Then last Autumn she asked me out, and now we are madly in love. So, first wammintg to first kiss, amost dead on fourteen years.
the_pie_chap said: There have many threads over the years with people asking for advice on how to tell their partner about their fetish. And I know for many of us, myself included, the road to sharing our love of wam with the love of our life has been a long and tortuous one. However, I also know that there are those among us who are far more bold.
So I was wondering, excluding times when you've met up with someone specifically for the purpose of getting messy: what's the quickest you've ever gone from meeting/getting together with someone, and wamming with them? Has anyone ever wammed on a first date or one night stand?! I would love to hear your stories of quick-fire wamming.
From dating? 2 months. A few weeks in we decided to unfurl our freak flags. Mine basically consisted of giving her the guide I wrote. 2 months later we're at Sam's picking up a tub of frosting and a case of cakes. It took two months because we were waiting for a special event. If not for that it may have been earlier. But I would also say there's a big difference between hooking up with someone for some short term sploshing and developing a relationship based on trust and mutual respect.
DungeonMasterOne said: I've kind of got a reverse version of this. Fifteen years ago I met Lady Jasmine and we became friends, and started shooting WAM scenes. But strictly professional, friends, business colleagues, nothing more. We both had other relationships at the time. I've been single for the last 10 years, she's been single for the last 7 or so. But we both assumed the other wouldn't be interested in a relationship, though we've been planning for her to do more scenes for a long while. Then last Autumn she asked me out, and now we are madly in love. So, first wammintg to first kiss, amost dead on fourteen years.
Oh wow..this is so lovely. I am so pleased for you both. It is so wonderful when things like this happen.
DungeonMasterOne said: I've kind of got a reverse version of this. Fifteen years ago I met Lady Jasmine and we became friends, and started shooting WAM scenes. But strictly professional, friends, business colleagues, nothing more. We both had other relationships at the time. I've been single for the last 10 years, she's been single for the last 7 or so. But we both assumed the other wouldn't be interested in a relationship, though we've been planning for her to do more scenes for a long while. Then last Autumn she asked me out, and now we are madly in love. So, first wammintg to first kiss, amost dead on fourteen years.
Oh wow..this is so lovely. I am so pleased for you both. It is so wonderful when things like this happen.
Amen to this, a heartwarming story and pleased for you both
DungeonMasterOne said: I've kind of got a reverse version of this. Fifteen years ago I met Lady Jasmine and we became friends, and started shooting WAM scenes. But strictly professional, friends, business colleagues, nothing more. We both had other relationships at the time. I've been single for the last 10 years, she's been single for the last 7 or so. But we both assumed the other wouldn't be interested in a relationship, though we've been planning for her to do more scenes for a long while. Then last Autumn she asked me out, and now we are madly in love. So, first wammintg to first kiss, amost dead on fourteen years.
Congrats x
You know, way back when you first started producing I thought Lady Jasmine was your partner.
Ask them if they're into any interesting sex stuff first. If they have anything odd of their own, great. Means they can't poo poo your own preferences. Usually they will ask the question back to you, and you can then tell them. It's a lot less likely to freak them out if they asked you first. But be open to the possibility they're not gonna be o with trying it. I think a lotta guys just bring up weird fetishes immediately when talking to gals online and that is not the best foot to put forward.
When I was teaching at a school, I got talking to one of the GORGEOUS counselors on staff. I think the second time we ever talked, we fucked after-hours on a classroom floor, & a few days later we were shopping at a grocery store for pudding & pies. I could see sparks of excitement & ideas clicking in her head as we shopped, & it got more & more difficult to walk. (Much harder!) She wanted to try putting frozen strawberries in her pussy, so we did that too. She got pied, slimed, & fucked so many times in my campus dorm room so much that year.
magic_boy said: When I was teaching at a school, I got talking to one of the GORGEOUS counselors on staff. I think the second time we ever talked, we fucked after hours on a classroom floor, & a few days later we were shopping at a grocery store for pudding & pies. I could see sparks of excitement & ideas clicking on her head as we shopped, & it got more & more difficult to walk. (Much harder!) She wanted to try putting frozen strawberries in her pussy, so we did that too. She got pied, slimed, & fucked so many times in my campus dorm room, so much that year.
Wow, sounds like you had a memorable time working there!
After GD and I split two years ago I joined an online dating agency and met a woman I ended up having a nice relationship for about a year.
I told her about WAM very early in our conversations and within about 3 weeks of meeting for the first time she tried WAM and had filmed two scenes in her bathroom. We came up with the handle 'Lily Ace' and subsequently made several other films plus she was even gunged at the Mostwam UMD 20 event.
There was more to it than WAM, of course, but I do think I probably brought her onto the scene a little fast (she was very sporting about it but it really wasn't her thing). Although amicably, we eventually went our separate ways.
NB. I tend to keep my relationships out of the 'slime-light' these days and stick to professional models for WAMming
Richard Trouso said: After GD and I split two years ago I joined an online dating agency and met a woman I ended up having a nice relationship for about a year.
I told her about WAM very early in our conversations and within about 3 weeks of meeting for the first time she tried WAM and had filmed two scenes in her bathroom. We came up with the handle 'Lily Ace' and subsequently made several other films plus she was even gunged at the Mostwam UMD 20 event.
There was more to it than WAM, of course, but I do think I probably brought her onto the scene a little fast (she was very sporting about it but it really wasn't her thing). Although amicably, we eventually went our separate ways.
NB. I tend to keep my relationships out of the 'slime-light' these days and stick to professional models for WAMming
I remeber Lily Ace well, and as you say she was very sporting about it indeed! I guess being in the 'slime-light' (great phrase btw) does bring its own pressures though.
Hmm.. from the time we started dating...I guess it was around our first wedding anniversary that they tried wetlook. So if we're counting that, then 7 years. If we're only counting messy then I guess about 14/15ish years.
Potatoman-J said: Hmm.. from the time we started dating...I guess it was around our first wedding anniversary that they tried wetlook. So if we're counting that, then 7 years. If we're only counting messy then I guess about 14/15ish years.
This sounds much more like the kind of pace I take things
the_pie_chap said: There have many threads over the years with people asking for advice on how to tell their partner about their fetish. And I know for many of us, myself included, the road to sharing our love of wam with the love of our life has been a long and tortuous one. However, I also know that there are those among us who are far more bold.
So I was wondering, excluding times when you've met up with someone specifically for the purpose of getting messy: what's the quickest you've ever gone from meeting/getting together with someone, and wamming with them? Has anyone ever wammed on a first date or one night stand?! I would love to hear your stories of quick-fire wamming.
I can answer this met my Boyfriend in a hot tub at a gunge event after we had gunged and then went onto date and stuff after that and nearly 1 year later we are still happy as can be. And gunge remains to be a very big part of our relationship
the_pie_chap said: There have many threads over the years with people asking for advice on how to tell their partner about their fetish. And I know for many of us, myself included, the road to sharing our love of wam with the love of our life has been a long and tortuous one. However, I also know that there are those among us who are far more bold.
So I was wondering, excluding times when you've met up with someone specifically for the purpose of getting messy: what's the quickest you've ever gone from meeting/getting together with someone, and wamming with them? Has anyone ever wammed on a first date or one night stand?! I would love to hear your stories of quick-fire wamming.
I can answer this met my Boyfriend in a hot tub at a gunge event after we had gunged and then went onto date and stuff after that and nearly 1 year later we are still happy as can be. And gunge remains to be a very big part of our relationship
Brilliant! Always great news when two wammers find each other
the_pie_chap said: There have many threads over the years with people asking for advice on how to tell their partner about their fetish. And I know for many of us, myself included, the road to sharing our love of wam with the love of our life has been a long and tortuous one. However, I also know that there are those among us who are far more bold.
So I was wondering, excluding times when you've met up with someone specifically for the purpose of getting messy: what's the quickest you've ever gone from meeting/getting together with someone, and wamming with them? Has anyone ever wammed on a first date or one night stand?! I would love to hear your stories of quick-fire wamming.
I can answer this met my Boyfriend in a hot tub at a gunge event after we had gunged and then went onto date and stuff after that and nearly 1 year later we are still happy as can be. And gunge remains to be a very big part of our relationship