Hello

Guys.... I do like guys 'n' girls, but don't batter me with requests please (well, warm batter actually would be lovely)

Are there London meets planned at any time in the future. Lurked around here long enough without taking part, so time that changed.

Rachel x

Heya, I'm thinking about organising a London splosher's munch social maybe around mid/late June. I know that's quite a bit away but we've got Birmingham coming up and I'm also trying to arrange something for Leeds and maybe Manchester too.

I and other locals are around at generic kink munches too if you attend them or would like some intros.

No pressure, you will no doubt get plenty of messages, just an open offer.

hi and welcome her.. 100 % sure get tons of message to you so won't message you uless what me to

i live in essex and never got messy and look find some one how might enjoy it with me first time

so never know ! hope find somone you have fun with !

Wow... I knew there would be some interest, but my inbox is popular!

I am thinking I may try a couple first? Think I would feel safer doing that.
Saying that, I don't mind attending a meet or something if it's in a public bar or similar.

Rachel x

Pm me!!! I'd love to chat and get to know you!! Let's get messy

Penny used to run Pies & Pints, a splunch in a London bar so non-messy.
The Sticky Trickster tried to do a meet up in London too, not sure how that went.

I would be interested in popping down if I'm free, London is the closest and easiest to get to for me.

Not ignoring all you chaps, but far too many private messages to answer you all.
And just saying, 'I know you will be popular but....' doesn't help ya chances! lol

Give me time to settle in. I'm only young(ish), so plenty time to get my boobies sticky

Rachel x

Yeah guys like she might be amazing and close by you but she just got here so let her settle in and find her way to all of you for a lot of fun.

Welcome to the community Rachel!

Yes I imagine you've opened the floodgates but there are a number of munches that may make it easier to find someone, and as you say a number of couples you may have better luck with at least initially.

Have fun

Just to flesh out a bit on that the answer was not very well. Granted there were many other factors at play - firstly I wasn't looking to step on anyone's toes by seeking to replace any previous regular meet ups from pre-Covid and that my intent was for some outdoor socially distanced meet ups in parks in between Covid waves to sort of support/foster community through out. So not only was Covid a bigger concern then but the weather forecast on the day was very iffy so in the end no one showed up.

Given the effort it took to try organise the first one, the issue with weather uncertainty and to be honest the attitude of some people that were messaging me (munches are meant to foster community rather than be something for guys to come and slobber over whatever women turn up yet this point seemed lost on some people) I sort of just quietly dropped the whole thing. Instead I've just been attending regular local BDSM munches which has probably been better for my own personal growth - as a switch with a strong pleasure control motive when domming it has been good to learn more things outside my usual spheres of interest in case any of the knowledge I learn will be something I can do that a future partner would enjoy.

As much as I would like to try help foster an in-person WAM community in London (had the previous outdoor meetups gone well I did think that perhaps a dedicated FetLife group or Discord server for such community to chat and maybe organise meetups would have been a good idea) unfortunately I'm currently going through a bit of a personal rough patch at the moment and given how frequently in the past I've benched/sacrificed my own personal needs to do one community project or other that I really need to reign in that particular tendency and
spend more time focused on sorting my stuff first.

If it turns out the previous pre-covid London splunches aren't going to return (as said previously wouldn't want to take over someone else's thing) at a push if people were keen for something regular I could see about sorting something informal like "Every 1st Thursday of the month we meet at location x" though if anyone would like to share the organisational burden it might actually be better for an all London community if the venue alternated between North and South London each month. My experience with other community groups this sort of we're meeting up each month around this time tends to require less organisation per meetup than big one off things. However it would very much depend on there being a sufficient level of interest in a regular monthly munch for it to be worth trying something like this. If there isn't the numbers for it there's no reason why the dedicated few that might like to meetup to chat monthly couldn't agree to meet up with each other at one of the quieter sit down local BDSM munches already going to chat. We don't need to completely segregate ourselves from the rest of the kink community.



Aside from any planned meetup may I remind people that taking the first steps into any kink community can be nerve wracking for anyone and that if you want this community to be one in which women feel comfortable being able to explore WAM, safely be a part of this community and to post here you cannot go inundating the inbox of a woman that starts posting here like a pack of sharks coming across new meat. In doing so not only do you make it more likely you'll scare off them off from being able to find a comfortable place in a community that understands and accepts their interests and kinks but you deter all the other women lurking in the community from doing the same lest they receive the same treatment. So knock it off.

That's a great ideal

First I would like to say welcome to the world of WAM.

Most munches are advertised on the events tab and normally there is a couple a month around London.

I would love to have a chat with you about WAM, but I won't bug you through DM, if you want to chat let me know.

And don't stay to clean for to long

A sensible plan

Hi and welcome to the world of wam! I'm sure you'll love it here and have some messy fun.

Like the looks of your cheerleader outfit getting pied and messed up

Welcome Rachel!

Unsurprising that your inbox is full! Hope we will be able to meet at a splunch nearby soon. Surprisingly I am yet to attend one despite being around for a number of years on here!

Stay safe and enjoy yourself - plenty of creeps around but similarly there are plenty of nice guys/gals around too! Hopefully the creeps don't put you off!

I'm based in Tennessee but planning on some travel to London later this year. I'm happy to keep in touch and maybe meet up at a pub or do some messy play when I'm there.

Hey all.

Now guys, not ignoring you, but I have like 60 PM's to sift through, all basically asking the same questions! lol

How did I get into it, please meet me, I know your getting bombarded but...
However, I don't mind, just give me time to respond.

Most asked question. How did I get into wam. One of my boyfriends wanted to pie my ass and I said fine.
We did that and it was such a laugh that I arranged to do it again the following weekend but with more pies.
Then a short while later, he discovered 'wamming' and we tried some custard, porridge and a few other things.

Hooked... we split up, but I then carried on playing on my own. Not done it with a guy since, but did have a few messy sessions with a girlfriend a few years back. I told her about it and we gave it a go. She is a girl-friend with benefits if you catch my drift.

Lately, I have been more and more into the submissive side of things (receiving), and I have found that savoury gunge works really well with that, as it's kinda punishment.
BUT... difficult to be a messy slave on your own!

Rachel x

New to posting here too sorry to highjack your thread Rachel recently started working in London (live on the south coast)

But would definitely be up for attended some meetings too.

Hope to see you guys around

I've been chatting to Penny Banks (who previously organised the Pies and Pints London Splosh Socials) and we've just finalising the details on a London Splunch for later this year.

Full details to be announced soon

Well I have been practising on my own rather a lot lately

I have 100 new friends and PM's to sort through when I get a moment. Just moving house, so it's all a bit up in the air.

So yes. On my list for the year:

Go to some public meets
Have a session with another girl
Have a session with a couple
Have a session with a guy who isn't going to keep me tied up in the garage afterwards

Later in the year, I may look into making some content. Not sure yet

Rachel x

Oh sound like some amazing plans and definitely sad that I won't be visiting London on my trip to the UK this year as you seem like an amazing playmate

Just for those guys who simply PM ' What your favourite gunge'... (and there is a lot)

Black treacle mixed into Sainsburys ready oats. Loads of sticky, brown goo for not much money

Second frequently asked question... 'What wam you into'

Messy... simple as that. Savoury if I want humiliation and sweet is oh so sticky.
Mud? Not tried it. Seems too cold in the UK for that.
Paint... na, not gooey enough for my panties.

And for those that send PM's even shorter than those questions.... probably not going to reply!

My favourite film of all time is Messygirl 'Baking with Hannah'. Oh my God how I want to be Hannah in that video #DampNow (in fact, watched it a few nights back)

Rachel x