I thought I would leave a review for MostWam having recently been along for a private session.
It was something I wanted to do for a while, or more specifically to bring my partner along and get her to go in the gunge tank. I jokingly suggested it to her some time ago and I was pretty surprised that she was up for trying it.
Having seen another post about private sessions I contacted Al at MostWam and he gave me all the info and I booked a session.
We were both a bit apprehensive on the day. It had seemed like a great idea when I booked it but when it got to the actual day I think we both felt a bit like...."Are we actually going to do this??".
I guess a few nerves are normal though and we actually ended up having a great laugh there. I probably did get a bit carried away with ordering the mess for her though. 100 litres of gunge,12 pies and a dunk tank full of water is quite a lot for one person!! But hey,thought I may as well go all in.
I think a large part of why we enjoyed it so much was down to Al. He was very welcoming, made us feel really at ease and is genuinely a really nice guy. Plus he managed to keep the gunge and water warm for us which my partner was very grateful for!
Potatoman-J said: I'm so glad that through it all (even with the nerves) you guys did it and had fun!
I could not agree more. I think it is quite sad that a lot of couples never get up to anything messy, the amount of relationships that would actually blossom if they did get up to some custard throwing fun! But it is a fine balance between making it fun and accepting that at the end of the day, it is your fetish.
I actually think it is more difficult to come out about your fetish whatever that may be than to come out about your sexuality!!
For anybody to have "come out" to their partner about their wam fetish and to then go and get gunged together......they both deserve a medal!! One for having the guts and the other for being opened minded.
I hope this is the start of something very messy for you both.
Next stage in my life is to get the wife out again for some gunge action!
Thanks for your message. As you say it is quite odd admitting it to a partner and even stranger going along to a studio for a messy session. Especially considering, like most people here, I spent most of my teenage years trying to keep my fetishes as secret as possible.
Must admit the night before our session it did feel a bit like....."Are we really going to do this?". I also felt quite bad that she ended up having uni coursework to hand in on the Monday and she spent most of the weekend travelling to/from getting gunged!
I'm glad to hear you and your wife are able to enjoy gunge together also
Thanks for your message. As you say it is quite odd admitting it to a partner and even stranger going along to a studio for a messy session. Especially considering, like most people here, I spent most of my teenage years trying to keep my fetishes as secret as possible.
Must admit the night before our session it did feel a bit like....."Are we really going to do this?". I also felt quite bad that she ended up having uni coursework to hand in on the Monday and she spent most of the weekend travelling to/from getting gunged!
I'm glad to hear you and your wife are able to enjoy gunge together also
Well there is a phrase, I am sure someone will tell us where it originated from.....Couples who splosh together, stay together!!
I bet you are also so relieved that you have managed to share your secret with her.
Out of all the fetishes you could have, this is probably the most fun. You now have a secret between you both that hopefully you can have a laugh with. Myself and my wife do look at each other if we see anything gunge or custard related out on our travels. We are both in our early 40's so "dead old"! in the eyes of the younger generation but we still do get up to fun.....
Whilst getting messy is not our main fetish activity we do try and get messy at least a few times a year and if we do we make a full day of it........1 hour getting messy.......8 hours cleaning up!!! That is why I am trying places like Mostwam, they can have the mess instead!
All I can say, do not get serious with it, treat it as a laugh, drop the odd hint, don't allow it to become a deal breaker if she is not as active with gunge as you would like........the fact she has got gunged and has not run a mile, you are very lucky!
If more people were accepting of peoples fetishes, then there would be a lot more happy couples in this world but it is also a two way thing. Just the word fetish can make people run a mile but if everybody was truthful about their inner workings I think the minority would be people without a fetish!!
People seem to be quite accepting of shops such as Ann summers selling.....nurses uniforms/ maids outfits etc but if you said you wanted your girlfriend in wellingtons or even work overalls to name a few, you would be treated as an odd ball........is there actually a difference??
There must be millions of suppressed individuals out there, you have bitten the bullet and have "come out" and it looks like you have won.
Thanks for sharing your experience at MostWam studios, Last year for my 40th, I had tried to persuade the wife to join in for a messy session there. She nearly agreed & talked me into do something much more sensible instead
However, we have started to talk about it again, as it's my suggestion for something fun to do together for our 10th wedding anniversary next month, it's still on the short list.
Can I ask from your experience & the set up at the studio what a good fun thing we could do with pies, gungetank with a bit of a competitive theme?