To find a woman that is in to wam? Seriously lol I'm 20 yrs old, I have a good job, I'm successful, I have my pick of women yet finding one that shares the same fetish as me seems nearly impossible. I don't get it. Any tips on how I could go about meeting one in the US?
I'm about 50, and in my time, I've always had to learn things the hard way. I'm not a psychology expert but over the years I've learned that women are just wired differently then us men. They think differently, they rationalize differently, they also approach things of a sexual nature differently. It isn't wrong to be different, it's just nature. We will never understand why they think or do things differently, but when we understand that this is natural, your success in finding the right woman, will happen.
It's not that women do not have fetishes, they do and as strongly as us men do. You have to understand that their approach to it is different, than ours. They are turned on in different ways than we are. And they can be very willing. Don't worry that you can't find a woman who is into WAM, thats not how it works for them. Like anyone, they can be introduced to an idea and like it.
My suggestion to you is this. Don't let WAM become the most important aspect of your relationship. Thats the biggest mistake we as men make when it comes to relationships. Because if you become too obsessive, any woman will see that, and will realize that all they are to you is an object and they will think you're creepy. You have to put them on top and keep them there, forever!
Just meet girls and find the one who is right for you. When she wants to know what turns you on (And you can expect that to be asked at some point), you can be open. If she loves you (The most important part of a relationship), she might want to participate, because she may want to be pleasing to you. (Remember they think differently than us) But under no circumstance should WAM become more important to you then her.
Love you, too
