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"Jessie has had an accident"
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Hi,it's Mike/MJD.
Just had a call to say that Jessie has had a little accident and and fallen hurting her head/neck/back/legs.
I'm not there so have insisted she goes to hospital just in case because she said it includes her head/neck and she only has a small head and is of slight build.
Also cos of the eating disorder her bone density is less than normal.
Anyway a taxi is on it's way for her to drop the kids en route at her Mums and then get her to the hospital.
Anyway just letting people know in case they message her etc
I can keep an eye on her UMD inbox from here but not the info@messy-jessie.co.uk email.
Regards Mike
Just had a call to say that Jessie has had a little accident and and fallen hurting her head/neck/back/legs.
I'm not there so have insisted she goes to hospital just in case because she said it includes her head/neck and she only has a small head and is of slight build.
Also cos of the eating disorder her bone density is less than normal.
Anyway a taxi is on it's way for her to drop the kids en route at her Mums and then get her to the hospital.
Anyway just letting people know in case they message her etc
I can keep an eye on her UMD inbox from here but not the info@messy-jessie.co.uk email.
Regards Mike
Jesus bull-buggering Christ! Hope things are ok...
Oh Janet! You look so funny!!!
Its Mike not Jess.
Apparently she started up the stairs,felt faint (which happens to her a fair bit)
and she's fallen but gone backwards and hit her back,neck,head,leg,bottom etc
She's got whiplash,a damaged coccyx etc
She can't move her neck properly and is in agony.
Going to take her on Monday to my private physio who is ace as I daren't take any chances with this not being sorted esp as her little bones are fragile etc
Poor girl,as if she hasn't been through enough.
She's putting on a brave face of course.
Thanks for the kind words anyway
Apparently she started up the stairs,felt faint (which happens to her a fair bit)
and she's fallen but gone backwards and hit her back,neck,head,leg,bottom etc
She's got whiplash,a damaged coccyx etc
She can't move her neck properly and is in agony.
Going to take her on Monday to my private physio who is ace as I daren't take any chances with this not being sorted esp as her little bones are fragile etc
Poor girl,as if she hasn't been through enough.
She's putting on a brave face of course.
Thanks for the kind words anyway
Oh no!!! I hope she's okay. Sending good vibes her way. 
Mike, thanks for letting us know, and for the update! This is terrible! Whiplash and injuring your coccyx are not minor things!
I'm glad that you know a good specialist that you are going to take her to.
Prayers & good thoughts are going her way!
Please keep us updated.
Norman
I'm glad that you know a good specialist that you are going to take her to.
Prayers & good thoughts are going her way!
Please keep us updated.
Norman
Really sad to hear about this. I hope she recovers soon. Thanks for looking after her.
Really sorry to hear that, ouch! Hope she makes a full recovery.
Saturation Hall - Forth! The Gungemaidens!
It's Mike
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
Jessiemessy-jessie.co.uk said: It's Mike
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
Don't resist, Mike! Jessie doesn't need that kind of aggravation! I think it would be hard for anybody on here who knows anything about Jessie to not know what she's been going through. Some people just don't have any sense, or are totally inept at social skills.
I've been amazed at the comments that Jessie has even made about rude people!
Norman
Hope she is better soon!
NormanMabeld said:
Don't resist, Mike! Jessie doesn't need that kind of aggravation! I think it would be hard for anybody on here who knows anything about Jessie to not know what she's been going through. Some people just don't have any sense, or are totally inept at social skills.
I've been amazed at the comments that Jessie has even made about rude people!
Norman
Jessiemessy-jessie.co.uk said: It's Mike
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
Don't resist, Mike! Jessie doesn't need that kind of aggravation! I think it would be hard for anybody on here who knows anything about Jessie to not know what she's been going through. Some people just don't have any sense, or are totally inept at social skills.
I've been amazed at the comments that Jessie has even made about rude people!
Norman
Thanks everyone it's Mike not Jess.
Norman,re. the guy it was the latter social skills aspect and also connected to something that had happened to him in the past.
I gave him the opportunity to apologise/explain and in fairness he was very apologetic and his wording in the first instance didn't convey what he intended to say so all is good with him.
Separately though and unrelated to him it's amazes how many dickheads there are who know about her last year of illness plus this accident and just keep pushing by sending messages wanted her to talk to them for free about what turns them on,or ask her 8 million questions about certain scenes and then not actually buy anything.
Another favourite is the pretend to want a session/custom and try and get her saying what SHE would like to do to them etc which is obviously turning them on without them buying anything.
So I'm dealing with 97% of that now ....and point out to them SHE doesn't want to do anything to them but if they want her to do something say what it is,cough up the money and she'll do it within the rules/guidelines provided!
It is the minority but it's about 20 people a week over UMD/Twitter/Facebook.
Never mind eh!
Anyway she has been to the physio.
She now has hourly exercises to do and a load of heat equipment.
She has to keep moving which is really painful for her.
So filming is at least 2 weeks away and possibly 4 weeks away
The physio reckons she needs 3 months of daily heat/exercise/meds etc
Poor girl,always trying to put a brave face on but this is REALLY hurting her.
Still,her mental health is 85% holding up.
Reaction to hurtful or inconsiderate things by people are the biggest challenge for her these days then the body dysmorphia and then the ED and Anxiety.
So still prety impressive how well she's done!
Should have a new film up on the 5th too!
Jessiemessy-jessie.co.uk said:
Thanks everyone it's Mike not Jess.
Norman,re. the guy it was the latter social skills aspect and also connected to something that had happened to him in the past.
I gave him the opportunity to apologise/explain and in fairness he was very apologetic and his wording in the first instance didn't convey what he intended to say so all is good with him.
Separately though and unrelated to him it's amazes how many dickheads there are who know about her last year of illness plus this accident and just keep pushing by sending messages wanted her to talk to them for free about what turns them on,or ask her 8 million questions about certain scenes and then not actually buy anything.
Another favourite is the pretend to want a session/custom and try and get her saying what SHE would like to do to them etc which is obviously turning them on without them buying anything.
So I'm dealing with 97% of that now ....and point out to them SHE doesn't want to do anything to them but if they want her to do something say what it is,cough up the money and she'll do it within the rules/guidelines provided!
It is the minority but it's about 20 people a week over UMD/Twitter/Facebook.
Never mind eh!
Anyway she has been to the physio.
She now has hourly exercises to do and a load of heat equipment.
She has to keep moving which is really painful for her.
So filming is at least 2 weeks away and possibly 4 weeks away
The physio reckons she needs 3 months of daily heat/exercise/meds etc
Poor girl,always trying to put a brave face on but this is REALLY hurting her.
Still,her mental health is 85% holding up.
Reaction to hurtful or inconsiderate things by people are the biggest challenge for her these days then the body dysmorphia and then the ED and Anxiety.
So still prety impressive how well she's done!
Should have a new film up on the 5th too!
NormanMabeld said:
Don't resist, Mike! Jessie doesn't need that kind of aggravation! I think it would be hard for anybody on here who knows anything about Jessie to not know what she's been going through. Some people just don't have any sense, or are totally inept at social skills.
I've been amazed at the comments that Jessie has even made about rude people!
Norman
Jessiemessy-jessie.co.uk said: It's Mike
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
She's actually been in more pain today which is expected and had a bit of treatment/collected the meds/got her a load of heat stuff and she's putting a brave face on.
Tomorrow she sees my proper private physio first thing so we'll know more then.
In the meantime I just intercepted a really rude message (as in bad mannered not sexual) to her that has just really irritated me.
Just resisting speaking to Messmaster about the guy at this second.
Don't resist, Mike! Jessie doesn't need that kind of aggravation! I think it would be hard for anybody on here who knows anything about Jessie to not know what she's been going through. Some people just don't have any sense, or are totally inept at social skills.
I've been amazed at the comments that Jessie has even made about rude people!
Norman
Thanks everyone it's Mike not Jess.
Norman,re. the guy it was the latter social skills aspect and also connected to something that had happened to him in the past.
I gave him the opportunity to apologise/explain and in fairness he was very apologetic and his wording in the first instance didn't convey what he intended to say so all is good with him.
Separately though and unrelated to him it's amazes how many dickheads there are who know about her last year of illness plus this accident and just keep pushing by sending messages wanted her to talk to them for free about what turns them on,or ask her 8 million questions about certain scenes and then not actually buy anything.
Another favourite is the pretend to want a session/custom and try and get her saying what SHE would like to do to them etc which is obviously turning them on without them buying anything.
So I'm dealing with 97% of that now ....and point out to them SHE doesn't want to do anything to them but if they want her to do something say what it is,cough up the money and she'll do it within the rules/guidelines provided!
It is the minority but it's about 20 people a week over UMD/Twitter/Facebook.
Never mind eh!
Anyway she has been to the physio.
She now has hourly exercises to do and a load of heat equipment.
She has to keep moving which is really painful for her.
So filming is at least 2 weeks away and possibly 4 weeks away
The physio reckons she needs 3 months of daily heat/exercise/meds etc
Poor girl,always trying to put a brave face on but this is REALLY hurting her.
Still,her mental health is 85% holding up.
Reaction to hurtful or inconsiderate things by people are the biggest challenge for her these days then the body dysmorphia and then the ED and Anxiety.
So still prety impressive how well she's done!
Should have a new film up on the 5th too!
Thanks for the explanation, Mike! I guess you can't shoot a guy for being lacking in social skills (but you could consider it!
)! And a person's lack of English skills can make things sound different than what one means! Seeing he has apologized and explained what he meant, I guess all is good. I just hate hearing Jessie mention at several different points that she gets rude or demanding messages. She doesn't need that kind of stress! And if she's being told by these letter writers that she "should've" done something, or she "hasn't" done something, that can hurt Jessie's fragile self-esteem at this point.
I just want the best for her (as so many of us do) as she recovers! I'm so glad that she has someone like you watching out for her at this point, Mike!
Norman
Please wish Jessie all the best from me ok, and hopefully she has a very speedy recovery.
Oh and tell her I give her a couple of teddy bear hugs
Oh and tell her I give her a couple of teddy bear hugs
I'm getting there.
I was very surprised how serious it was and thought Mike was over-reacting on the phone about having to go to the hospital but hopefully a week on Monday I can start filming again after a double check at the physio.
I was very surprised how serious it was and thought Mike was over-reacting on the phone about having to go to the hospital but hopefully a week on Monday I can start filming again after a double check at the physio.
Jessiemessy-jessie.com said: I'm getting there.
I was very surprised how serious it was and thought Mike was over-reacting on the phone about having to go to the hospital but hopefully a week on Monday I can start filming again after a double check at the physio.
I was very surprised how serious it was and thought Mike was over-reacting on the phone about having to go to the hospital but hopefully a week on Monday I can start filming again after a double check at the physio.
That's great to hear, Jessie! I'm glad that Mike insisted that you go to the hospital!
Just be careful not to over-do it, or do too much too soon! You don't want to re-aggravate anything!
I LOVE your new profile pic, with the "Splosh Magazine Cover" of you!
Take care, Sweetie!
Norman
Thanks Norman.
I've got a cold now!
Hopeless aren't I??
I've got a cold now!
Hopeless aren't I??
A squirrel ball you mean?
I love the last pic with the cute young lady in it, Jason! Now we just need to fill the ball with pie filling while she's in it. Every time the ball rolls, the mess would fall on her! 
Norman
Norman
