That's not how harassment works. He was cute. I was very disappointed that he turned out to be a creep otherwise I probably would have ended up fucking him. I would like a fuck buddy but not someone who is going to annoy the hell out of me.

I can't speak for other people but I am attracted to people based more on personality & intelligence than appearance. 2 out of the 3 guys I dated long term were overweight and one was starting to go bald. Intelligence and a good sense of humor are by far the sexiest traits to me. Oh and not being a co-dependent whiny little bitch filled with self pity. That's a huge turn off. For example your comment above = total boner killer.

Leila, where do I send in my application?

Fuck fuck fuck fuck OKAY BUT I'M #2 IN LINE! C'mon, Happy Camper, fuck this up! Choke! Choke! Choke!

Just put it in the mail and address it to the Space Pope, no address needed.

Apologies for the late reply to this, meant to post a while back. But yes, that behaviour is at best annoying and at worst extremely creepy. The whole advantage of text messages is you can send them at your convenience and the other person can respond when it's convenient for them to do so. I often send texts to people and get a reply the next day, and I don't pester them with extra messages in between, just wait till they have a chance to reply. To me that's normal and polite behaviour. Occasionally if it's something that needs an urgent response because it's to do with making joint arrangements or booking tickets or something I might send a prompt if an urgent answer is needed - but otherwise, I just send one message and wait for a reply before sending any more. Pestering people just drives them away, and many people can't respond straight away while at work, or because they are driving, etc.

Wait, "total boner killer" ? Leila, what aren't you telling us?

Bull shit. I've told off creepy dudes with money that look like Calvin Klein models in complete disgust of them. In fact they piss me off even more because they are usually so confident they can treat people like shit and get away with it.

I guess there is hope for me yet

The world seriously needs more confident women like yourself

Try the North Pole c/o Santa's Workshop.

That's about your only chance.

Ed, you don't have to imagine; just look at her profile pic. She is beautiful & VERY sexy!

Also, you can check out her profile page. Lots of wonderful pics there!

Norman