I'm another bi person who really appreciates both being around. Though I find myself looking at more male content on this site as the more DIY, everyone-gets-messy approach is the most fun for me. There are a handful of women WAMming in this style too, but I've definitely noticed the amateur male content/produced female content pattern that some earlier posts mentioned.

Also another bi guy here. With me it's interesting, with vanilla sexual relations I tend to go after men more than women although i would say it's pretty much a fifty fifty split. With WAM I've bought nearly almost all female content which I think is down to the psychologica aspect of WAM (women are meant to look proper, not get messy and dirty etc.) but in recent times with me being a more outgoing bisexual I've tended to look at more coed WAM. Just my thoughts, I've enjoyed seeing the thoughts of other bi folk as well.

Been trying to collect my thoughts on this thread before replying to make it coherent. Not sure I'll succeed but if you don't like it, pie me.


I find it just amazing how upset or just generally butthurt some guys get when they have to see male sexuality and nudity on display. We've seen a few threads like this. Like, wow, are you that offended by it?!? Most girls aren't bi and from a young age we're exposed to all sorts of displays of female sexuality. And yet you don't see nearly the complaints from females that the media is littered with half naked women--instead, we learn to EMBRACE it and cheer for the women who do these things, learn to make it out own. Other women just don't care to see it either and still don't complain. I don't know whether you guys are terrified that you might see something you don't like or just think everything should cater to only your interests, as if they are the only ones that exist. Heaven forbid you should have to sort through a few extra posts to find the content you want.

Time to put on some big boy pants and deal with it. If you don't like it, just ignore it and move along.

I've got to agree with most of this, especially where women are concerned. I don't think I've ever read a post from a woman here complaining about seeing one or the other gender. Maybe this is because there are A LOT more men here than women, or maybe because men are more vocal about it? I'm not really sure, but you are definitely right.

Regarding men though... It's guys of ALL orientations. Some men complain about male WAM, and others yet see one woman because of a mis-tag or something.

I don't think it's a homophobia or something like that, at least not specifically, or not always. Rather I think more often it's just that some people are so hard wired sexually, that seeing something different is extremely off putting. I think some come here to get off, and see one thing that kills it for them. Then they get upset and feel they have to say something about it.

Because of that, I don't really mind these threads. Some people are new, some aren't tech savvy or know the site well. A lot of these will be threads for things are already answered in the past, but often times, they get buried several pages back. Sometimes people forget to look at the FAQ.

This thread has been very helpful in alerting me to the strict setting.

I have no personal problems with male WAM because everyone has different likes and i'm not gonna throw a tantrum just because i see a guy.

That said, i would perhaps suggest that producers perhaps err on the side of caution when it comes to tagging. That way, it would save the hassle of the more uptight super strict types from complaining. XD

I would also suggest that producers single gender and co-ed stuff separately if possible so that mono-gender content is least likely to be hidden away by the strict setting just because it maybe posted in the same thread with co-ed content and vice versa.

They're just suggestions from one users so do what you will though XD

Well said, Justine. Sometimes I look out for content that "I don't like." Sometimes it's interesting to give it another look and sometimes I surprise myself and even find I like it after all. Ever day can bring new joys.

When you think about it....male WAM is actually FEMALE WAM.

(This will confuse anyone who is drunk, stoned or watches Jerry Springer)


Robby