clownpies said: The whole concept of candid WAM makes me uncomfortable. Sure, it's very easy to look down on people like Ant, he either lacks the emotional intelligence to understand how he negatively impacts people or specifically gets off on that negative impact, but try to think about it from the victim's perspective. They've posted a video or photo or something to some online platform, the subject being something totally innocuous from their perspective. Some creep leaves them a creepy message and weirds them out, but that gets them to thinking about all the other views... it starts to make more sense why this one seemingly innocent post has twenty times the views of their standard stuff. I could see that realization of thousands of fetishists getting off to you unknowingly as even more disturbing than one idiot unable to contain himself.
I got some great video from a fundraiser I participated in last summer (myself and a young lady), which I have steadfastly refused to post/share/link to any of the UMD forums - not because I don't want to contribute to the community, but because what we were doing was non-sexual & non-fetishistic (myself included, actually), and I don't feel right putting my friend in a position where her fun, innocent volunteer activities become somebody else's masturbation fuel...
Calvin2384 said: I got some great video from a fundraiser I participated in last summer (myself and a young lady), which I have steadfastly refused to post/share/link to any of the UMD forums - not because I don't want to contribute to the community, but because what we were doing was non-sexual & non-fetishistic (myself included, actually), and I don't feel right putting my friend in a position where her fun, innocent volunteer activities become somebody else's masturbation fuel...
Hmmm ... Gotta say I'm in column Masturbation Fuel on this one.
Calvin2384 said: I got some great video from a fundraiser I participated in last summer (myself and a young lady), which I have steadfastly refused to post/share/link to any of the UMD forums - not because I don't want to contribute to the community, but because what we were doing was non-sexual & non-fetishistic (myself included, actually), and I don't feel right putting my friend in a position where her fun, innocent volunteer activities become somebody else's masturbation fuel...
Hmmm ... Gotta say I'm in column Masturbation Fuel on this one.
I made this same point when I saw someone posting "web finds" in a gay mud site. The finds were things like mud volleyball and mud runs and other innocent type photos and such people posted of their events and such. If you want to go out to the site they are posted and look, fine, but taking someone's photo and splattering it on a kink site is another thing.