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Hello,
Not sure.my husband and I are both extreme mud fetishs'. We are the only 2 I know of. Most of my girlfriends like bdsm, oil or like shower stuff. His friends like all the common stuff as well. I'll speak on behalf of the mud people, it's not something people advertise. In a room of 50 people, I would wager 50 have never thought about playing nude in mud, masturbation in mud or sex. So for mud it's usually a unicorn goods and bads. Take Jayce and xan two extremely gorgeous women who like mud! The numbers go out even further when you find a female interested in mud. Now find a pretty female who is interested in mud, good luck? With that said men with a mud fetish would pay top dollar to see a pretty girl wallowing in mud, cause there ain't many.

I knew one, but she actually found out she likes mud sexually by having a spontaneous thought to play in it once and asked me to have a mud fight with her. We never really officially dated or anything and this was years ago. We still talk and she still loves mud. My point here is that most people wouldn't even know until they try it. Sometimes the fetish comes from the first experience. Find someone willing to try it with you first. Someone you like, someone you click with and everything else is going good relationship wise. Then bring it up when the time is right. Don't be weird or feel weird about it and it won't come off that way.

Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, my last girlfriend refused to even entertain small play with things like whip cream let alone go into legit wam territory beyond small amount of whip cream. We didn't work out for other reasons but this is something that people might need to hash out or bring up before you get into a serious relationship in case your fetish is a non negotiable NO for them.

I'd like to respectfully say, that I'm guessing the lady's do it for money and modeling. I don't think that they would look for a partner to enjoy this off camera. I'm sure there are some. #2 that yes there are so many creepy men out there. And looks have a lot to do with it these days. I have a good job house and love all types of wam.but I'm not good looking for these lady's. Location is another. Age also. To me it seams the models are getting younger and less and less lady's my age. So many factors. I do agree with you though. Us wammers need some way to meet and date.

It is very hard to find a lady and I agree with you. I did find one and our first date will be this Saturday. Drop small hints and see how they respond.

I grew up houses away from my husband he knew several women who liked mud, a brief list

Me-I joined him on almost every adventure, we had the same social class. It was us we were literally dirt poor. Playing in mud was free. Our parents were like cool go play in mud. It cost them nothing. No one else wanted to join.

2 cousins- one was a true mud fetishist. She loved mud as much as us. She also would anticipate a heavy rainfall that would soak the farm fields around her home. The other cousin liked walking in mud with her shoes.

Another neighbor-she loved sludge. Loved the smell. Only person I know that would throw on a swimsuit when the water was gone out of the ditch and have at it. I joined her a couple of times but there was leeches now and then.

Aunt so his aunt had 0 money. She resorted to beauty practices. She did not have a fetish for it but she would be out in the back 40 mud bathing. Not uncommon to see her with her red hair up in a messy bun completely nude only in a towel heading toward the mud bog. She would also walk over to smoke cigarettes and drink coffe with his mother through the field, she would stop and give herself a mud facial. She introduced me to mayoing my hair to make it soft. She was like this hot hillbilly woman.

Uncle-loved playing in mud and driving vehicles through it

Imma gently argue that the functionality for WAM dating is already built into UMD, as I've had a great experience, yet that only holds true if others are as comfortable as I was with it.

As a gal, I get a lot of DMs (that I'm cruddy at replying to, apologies!) but they have been overwhelmingly respectful! That is, the senders read my profile and saw my comfort level when it comes to posting content (fully clothed) and RPing. I've met up twice with UMDers for platonic pie-fights, during which boundaries were mutually respected and a great time was had by all. Would absolutely meet up again. I've had some amazing conversations here.

I'm also blessed to have found a WAM partner here on UMD; though he said it best: we both have very full lives and can't see each other nearly as often as we'd like. I'm a big proponent of chatting here long before meeting up, setting boundaries, meeting in public spaces and holding off on intimacy until both parties are ready. It's been a real trip. Per UMD stats, I've had vids online since 2017, I've made almost $30 since then and I average 4 cents a week. I'll humbly admit I'm a rank amateur practically giving it away for free vs. quitting my day job.

WAM_in_Bed, so much appreciation for your post! Mutual respect for the guys of UMD.


mudngunge, thank you for addressing something crucial. It raises my mama bear hackles when someone pushes a minor's innocent videos into something sketchy. Thank you for reporting inappropriate comments!

No one asked but my philosophy has always been this. It is clear that some form of WAM is very important to me. Showering in clothes and pies in the face. When I start a new relationship and we get to the stage of intimacy and sharing with each other what turns each of us on, I am very honest about it.

About 95% of the women I talked to about pies were fine with it including a number of them really excited by the idea. I've had some who let me pie them and got excited by seeing how much it excited me. One in particluar who I put a banana cream pie in her face and then took the other one and smeared them on her new black jeans. She LOVED it. She also was the one who thought about getting the pies and bought them.

Everyone has been fine with clothed shower. They don't always get it but they try it.

There are some who doesn't like the ideas of pies at all. And that's ok but this is why I bring it into the conversation early. I wiash I could say this isn't a big part of my life but it is. When I am dating someone, I don't want to be on UMD getting my WAM fix by pictures or videos but from my partner. If they don't want to take part, I wouldn't say 100% that the relationship won't happen but this is why I want to talk about it early.

One final thing. If my partner does give consent, I actually don't talk about it or ask them to do the WAM stuff with me much. Once a month or every two months. I don't want that to be a subject they can't get away from or smother them. Knowing that they would do this with me actually keeps me going more than doing it sometimes.

I have also found, if someone really likes you, as long as they are not put into danger that they will probably at least consider it which is a great start. I always tell them it's all provate and in a safe space and once we get started, we can stop if they don't like it.

Trouso hit it on the head.

OMFG!!!

Nothing insightful to add really, but wanted to say as a woman who looks for personal WAM relationships (NO do not message me on here please) - it is VERY difficult for us as well. I'm open about my kink on some personal dating sites and lemme tell ya, mostly just wading through creeps who waste my time and will ghost a video chat (and those are just folks who are kinky in general, have only found one other from the sites who is interested in trying WAM - we'll see if we ever meet IRL )

I hope for loving and kinky connections for all

Find somebody here that is interested in a date and is not living hundreds or thousands of kilometers away is nearly impossible.
I am registered here for years now and also have tried to contact people from Germany but no luck...

So I guess it is the difference between female and male.
Males have "bucket-lists" and the will to realize dreams and fantasies.
Females, emancipation given or not, are acting different.
They are looking for different things, and of course the "offer" of man for woman is far bigger then the amount of women that a man can contact.

So lets wait and see may I find a message in my inbox one day....

Mister K.