Oh my god....some of these are horrible. I'm so sad some of the experiences some of you had to go through (some of you MULTIPLE TIMES). I was terrified of my fetish for a long time. I lurked here for a LONG time before I built up the nerve to say fuck it.

For me, it was cathartic to, because my life had already basically fallen apart. My marriage was nearly at an end, I had cancer, I was basically expecting to be dead in a year or so. I guess I felt like I had nothing to lose, and really no one to out me. I certainly didn't have to worry about work or family. It really makes me sad that some of you do.

It's such a weird thing how somethings with sex are totally fine, and other's are still taboos. Take a pregnant woman for example. We all know someone's been making big cums in her, but that's fine. It's natural, it's human nature, fuck, it's just ALL nature. But god forbid we find out that the woman pegged her man first, or they played around in pudding or something and we're all like DEVIANT!!!!

It's sad that people care SO MUCH about what other people are doing with their lives.

So outed is a strong word...
But I had some friends come to stay with me while I was at uni, stupidly I left them free access to my computer and they looked at my internet history...
To these days they tease me about 'Gunge girls' I'm beyond caring now, but it was quite annoying for a time!
None of my relationships caused a spill about this...yet