I really like to see a wet handbag/purse(especially a full one) if it is willingly soaked. One of my favorites is Maxi's set where she gets wet in a white dress and a completely full purse. I've had luck in the past convincing a GF to get wet with an empty purse bought for the occasion, but it isn't the same as seeing someone spontaneously soak their purse.

Clothes, definitely yes. There are so many sub niches of what people like and absolutely abhor.

But accessories like purses, certain types of shoes even, never did anything for me.

Glad to see a response from yourself as know how much of an effort you make with your scenes & enjoy as a result. Find a response like this very insightful too.

Here,s the link to the Smith and Jones sketch.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Plwuy8vdZx0

IMO the most underrated accessory for a woman getting a pie in the face are nice, gaudy, dangling earrings. They will often catch part of the cream and flail around a bit after impact even when the victim face isn't moving. I love that effect!

Absolutely. Clothes and mess are my two main draws.

Clothing adds to the overall sensual expression & experience of getting messy. To me, the clothes are a big part of getting primed for mess. Some outfits add to the extremely sensual erotic nature of WAM where others take away from it.

A woman getting messy in denim won't do anything for me. Denim doesn't feel good. It has a brick-wall effect to feeling mess. Something highly comfortable and sensual like a satin dress, soft stockings, or leggings, will increase the sensual enjoyment of mess and makes it more erotic.

Ultimately I want to see WAM that is pleasurable. Cold mess can have the same effect as uncomfortable clothes or a cold, fluorescent lit studio: If the model isn't experiencing authentic enjoyment despite whatever kinky play I feel whatever they do.

Costumes are my fav

I love for a situation to be spontaneous and reckless, it makes my arousal much stronger.

If I come home from shopping or a date with friends, it's exciting to get into the bath with everything I'm wearing at that moment. My outfit, coat, heels or boots, watch, jewelry, hat or scarf, even my handbag needs to be brought in...

I love that feeling of throwing caution and reason to the wind. Sometimes I ruin things (mainly some things in my bag) but the eventual orgasm I get is enough to justify it for me.

Late joining in on the thread, but I'll toss in my 2 cents. And before I say any of my preferences, that's all they are: personal preferences. I love that there are all sorts of variations of stuff that ISN'T what I like, so that all those others who have their own differing preferences have material they can enjoy. Variety's what makes the world go round. Also, most of this is what I find attractive in general, not just for WAM. OK, so here are my preferences (and, of course, there are occasional exceptions to some of these):

Outfits definitely make a difference. For me, it's all about casual wear. Jeans and a t-shirt are best. The kind of stuff the model would casually wear day-to-day is best. Fancy outfits and complicated lingerie are much worse for me and will typically be a pass. And it makes a HUGE difference if panties are full-back (bikini or whatever) as I very much dislike thongs.

As for make-up, jewelry, tattoos and such, I much prefer all-natural. A little bit of any of those three is passable. The more of any of those, the less I will like it. The perfect option would be absolutely no make-up, jewelry or tattoos.

There's been a fair amount of discussion about glasses in the thread. I'm sorry to say to those who wear them, but for some reason, glasses are an instant turn-off for me. The eyes are a key part of me finding somebody attractive, and for whatever weird reason, glasses of any kind are a universal and instant turn off for me. So much so, there could be a perfect video that I love and if she puts on glasses I might as well stop watching. Just like my love for the WAM fetish itself, I've got no rational explanation for this one. It's just the way it is.

As for other accessories like purses and such being involved, I guess I would lean towards not having them, but it's not as much of an issue for me. Can take it or leave it.

As for clothed/nudity in WAM videos, the best ones start off clothed and end up naked (and bonus if it includes sexual play, be it masturbation or full-on sex, etc). But all-clothed or all-naked is OK if it otherwise fits what I enjoy.

The greatest way to ruin a video? Acting, of any kind.

Anyway, that's my personal opinion. Sorry to those of you who wear glasses or have tattoos, etc. Just the way my goofy brain works for what it finds attractive.

its everything for me. More important is where the scene is filmed. Let me just put it this way, if you sell pie in the face video and you are inside your bath tub, with your shower head in full display in the background, i'm not interrested.

clothes are verz importan for me as well, I like when models are nicely dressed

(I'm sorry if this is considered reviving a thread or whatever. This post just caught my attention today.)

When choosing which scenes to watch or buy, the "completeness" of the outfit is very important for me. I'm especially interested in formal dresses and other more elegant clothing (fancy businesswear, party clothes, etc), but I quickly lose interest when the woman looks like she rolled out of bed and put the dress/outfit on, with no makeup, hair hanging limply or thrown up in a quick bun, no jewelry or heels (or a formal outfit with casual shoes or other footwear that doesn't fit the outfit), no other accessories that would normally go with the outfit like jackets or belts. One thing that particularly bugs me is an unlaced corset, when the lace is just looped through the top loops/hooks and tied in a knot, or just tied around the torso like a bathrobe's tie. I mean, I get that it can be a lot of work to lace the corset, and can be very hard to do when the model doesn't have someone there to help her get dressed.

All of this is just a big distraction for me when things are obviously missing, incomplete, or done wrong (as in how the clothing is worn, not that the scene was done wrong). I guess you can chalk that up to my OCD.

The thing is, though... I can understand why the outfits are incomplete or why the corset is unlaced or why the buttons aren't done. When I get all dressed up for my own shoots with my friend, she helps me with the buttons, lacing the corset, remembering the accessories etc. But when I'm on my own, some things are hard to do on my own so I'll just do the best I can. Also, especially in public, I chicken out a lot. Even if I do follow through, I tend to remove whatever I can without becoming indecent, like a "normal" person would. Normal people take their shoes off before they walk in the water and they don't swim in jackets or gloves or hats or tiaras or fancy jewelry. So if I'm at a hotel and want to swim in the pool, I might go down there fully dressed like i just came from some event, but by the time I actually get in the water, I've taken off all the extra stuff.

It is different with my friend taking pictures though. She knows its more than just goofy fun for me, but for her, she's just a photographer taking pictures of a model. It doesn't feel weird when she's there because, well... people don't really question things when a photographer is present.

On that note, in my experience, people question more when it seems contrived. The one time I went down to the hotel pool in a formal dress with my hair undone, no makeup or jewelry, and barefoot, I got more questions about why I was there than I've ever gotten when I looked like I was coming back from an event or work or shopping or whatever.


I almost forgot the other thing I wanted to reply to: the glasses/purse debate. I wear glasses, but I don't get them wet or messy. They're way too expensive and important for me to risk scratching, breaking, or losing. Besides, there's nothing i need to see super clearly while I'm doing it. And as for purses, well... they're just so annoying. Carrying a clutch means that hand is occupied. Purses with straps keep falling off my shoulders. I actually try to avoid having a purse with me at all in my normal life. I have a toolbox, locker, and lunchbox at work where anything i need is kept, and my money/credit cards/etc are all in my phone case, which I take with me wherever I go. I guess my lunchbox kinda serves the same purpose as a purse at work because I keep any necessities in there, but it just sits on my toolbox.

lol I got off-track there. My point is, I don't like carrying purses and if I do happen to have one on me, it's not coming into the water or mud or whatever with me. They can have their place in WAM as a viewer, but after a certain point, it gets distracting, especially if the woman has to keep picking it up or putting the strap back on her shoulder. If it's being used as a prop like being filled with water or gunge and dumped on the woman, then it's fine. If it's just there and getting in the way, it seems pointless.

My favorite prop though? A pretty pair of heels. I prefer to both wear and see strappy stilettos, but nothing beats a nice peeptoe used as a scoop and love wearing them in the bath to pour water on myself. That's one of my favorite things to see others do as well.

What a fascinating discussion. Just to throw in my two-penny worth; I agree with those who have remarked that for them the best messy scenes are when the subject is smartly and fully clothed in an outfit that they would not normally wish to get marked. They should also be wearing makeup.

Heels, jewelry, and other accessories - including bag and glasses - also add to an image of someone for whom water or pies are the last thing on their mind. I like it when the scene develops slowly so that the subject starts of shocked and appalled before slowly coming round to accepting their fate. Scenarios obviously help here.

But we are all different and their is no single 'right' approach. It's whatever suits you.

I think clothing helps with the illusion that the mess is unexpected. It's hard to pin down what look is best. I love barefoot in jeans and a t-shirt just as much as I love ball gown with fancy heels.