Too and messy don't belong in a sentence together. My brain my have just exploded. It's an interesting read though, and gives some decent (not great) advice where the vajizzle comes into into play. I think without giving a one on one and knowing the person it's a pretty good beginners guide, and if used as a starting point the person will discover what does and doesn't work for them
It was written by an OB-GYN and a BDSM Educator. One knows about alternative lifestyles and the other knows the effects on your health.
There was really nothing earth-shattering here. Pretty much just what you would think is common sense (I don't like that phrase, I don't believe in common sense).
-Although I must say "there actually isn't research to show what would happen if you put sugar in the vagina" probably is a line of words not often written. I'd just love to be a fly on the wall of the review for that grant application. How would one justify that?-
Ok, back on subject...when I cast for videos, one of the things I make my models declare is their allergies. Food allergies is a thing, and I don't want to dump a huge bucket of allergy problems on someone. I've never heard of a food allergy causing a problem if not ingest, like touching cake batter makes your wheat allergy flare up. I've also described in terms of if you accidentally get some in your mouth. Also, I have cats and I smoke, so I make sure people aren't allergic to either of those, also.
They do also point out the slip hazard associated with this. I'm always worried that a model will slip and fall.
But the major point about not using spicy foods...the fact that this has to be said proves you should never underestimate people's ability to screw things up.
helloboi1134 said: I'm grateful that it's out there because the more normal wam is, the better.
Fact is, most people are not going to have this fetish. But if it's seen as just some kinky fun, that's way better for us then having it seem random and weird.
Good point and that's the way I read it too - someone asked a question about WAM and it was answered in a fair and grown-up way, treating the fetish as just like any other someone might have and as valid as anything more mainstream. (Odd that they imply that "WAM" and "sploshing" refer to different things, though - and there was me thinking it's simply US/UK terminology...)
Nonetheless, to answer the OP's original question, you can never have too much mess, as the below pictures of Jilly and Jayce, both about 10 buckets of goo down the line, amply demonstrate. And yes, I know that the "too much mess?" question has been adequately answered already by other posters, but any excuse will do to show pics of those two absolutely covered...
There is actually such a thing as too much mess, but it only happens if you've opened a bunch of stuff that has to be either used or thrown away, and the some disaster (zombie apocalypse, alien invasion, etc) then prevents your models from getting to the shoot. :devil:
I hate that dominatrix. She gets interviewed a lot as an expert on fetishes and she's brought up "wet and messy" and "sploshing" on multiple occasions, but she lacks a fundamental understanding of the fetish and its community. First, she thinks it is a subset of bdsm, which it clearly isn't. There is a crossover, for sure, but they are totally distinct fetishes. Second, her concept of wam is really just food fetishism, which is, at best, a subset of wam. In some of her conceptions (blindfolding someone and feeding them spicy food, etc.) it has nearly nothing to do with wam.
It's funny they keep bringing in this dominatrix like she is the expert. You would think if she going to educate people on wam, she would've actually been well known in this community, At the least visited a real wam site or something.
I kinda hate the fact she gets mainstream attention and makes it look like torture. Like the YouTube vid she did with Taryn Southern. Taryn said it hurt at one point.
Honestly. I know no one will say it... but there us too messy. One time I sprung for 12 paint can sized puddings. By the time I got to the 7th can it was not doing anything for me because I was already completely and totally covered. The rest was kinda a waste.. but they were open so they got poured over me... but as for being exciting it really wasn't cause it felt like nothing...
If contained so you can have it all over you and do anything you can with it, too much mess sick when you are finished but HOT DAN it's fucking amazing when you are in it!!! See out tub of mystery substance videos....the pics above,any mud pit videos, I love the one where inlay down nude and get ALL KINDS OF MESS piled on me and then roll around in it. The latest savory set I did. Omfg. An entire tub full. It is an incredible feeling to have that weight of mess on and around you. Absolutely incredible. I cannot wait to shoot this last video that will be mine for sale in the house of mess! It will go down in "too much mess" history! I'm honest to God excited and SCARED all at the same time bc of how much it is!! It will be one of my finest. After that, after some talk with ariel, I do believe I may be doing some customs for way babe's possibly! We will see!
Jayce said: See out tub of mystery substance videos....the pics above,any mud pit videos, I love the one where inlay down nude and get ALL KINDS OF MESS piled on me and then roll around in it.
I cannot wait to shoot this last video that will be mine for sale in the house of mess!
I've got quite a few HoM clips and they're pretty much all classics, especially the ones (you in Ariel's salon and Jilly in the Wambabes Quiz Show) I've taken the pictures from.
And did you notice how popular they both are, judging by the number of likes...? Jus' sayin'....