I came across a thread on Twitter where a Dom was complaining that subs would reach out to her for a session saying that they are willing to do whatever she wants but then back down once she tells them what to do. Obviously it is very easy to be brave sitting behind a keyboard but more reserved in an actual situation.
So that got me thinking. If you were given the chance to session with that one warmer you've always wanted to get messy with, are you willing to say that they can do whatever they want or would you all of the sudden find your limits.
For example, I wrote and sent a messy story to Darla that involved her dressing me up in a French maid costume then covering my head in peanut butter and giving me a mohawk. As fun as that sounds, I don't want ti risk something happening to my hair should the peanut butter not wash out.