Hi. I have been into WAM for many years before meeting and marrying my good lady.
We discussed fetishes a few times, but she laughed it off. Later on, we have played with cream as you do and had fun. I am curious to hear about peoples experiences initating wam with their partners - were they successful and how they went about it.

I would be into sploshing with her or both of us clothed

Thanks

Hi,

Thanks for raising this post The other year I simply pushed my curvy partner into a muddy creek to 'test' how she feels about it. She was instantaneously aroused, yet I find it difficult to really 'plan' sessions because she likes the surprise.

Wow, extreme option. If you don't mind me asking, what was she wearing? Did you jump in too?
The mrs hates being dirty, so not one for me

There are online tests you can do as a couple (one example is Mojoupgrade). It reports back and tells you of compatible interests while hiding interests that one of you has that the other would not like to do at all. You can then discuss the results with each other and see what you like that they would be up for (and vice versa).

Interesting. Have you tried it yourself?

Yeah, unfortunately messy stuff wasn't a match but other stuff did and we were able to discuss it and have some fun. We later broke up for other reasons but I would do the quiz again.

I was honest with my girlfriend from the start. It helps if you can give her good dick, then she will do whatever you ask.

I got some bentonite clay and drywall compound and waited till my parents left for the weekend. We used an inflatable boat which wasn't very big but was comfy. She enjoyed it a lot and wants to try it again.

I brought it up to my girlfriend at the time. It isn't her thing and she doesn't like to get messy herself but she will occasionally give me a pie or cake in my face during sex

Just for future reference, "shoving your partner into mud without warning" and "giving her good dick until she lets you" are perhaps not the best approaches listed here.

Indeed. I guess this is more of a move from vanilla/mainstream bdsm to obscure fetish. We are curious about more, but it is going to rake more than giving her good dick!