So I would consider myself "normal". Father, husband, have a good job pretty normal nothing out of.
Kids are normal, good students and athletes. Wife is normal and a good person. And then I have my fetish's. The things that arouse me. My wife is not really into them and my kids are to young to tell. Honestly I do not know anyone close to me into them.
My fetish's are in this order:
1) mud - on myself and other woman.
2) leather - leather pants/ leggings on myself or wife.
3) smoking - other woman.
4) latex catsuits, thigh boots and opera gloves - other woman.
My wife was into one of my fetish's for about 2 years from 2014-2016. That was the leather legging and boot fetish. She would wear them all the time then it fizzled out.
We do not share any other of my fetish's. I will back up she used to wear leather pants when I was in college often and give road head which was unreal.
My main fetish-mud I had for as long as can remover. We had the book marvelous mud washing machine when I was in elementary school that was a turn on, there was also a book with short stories one of the stories was about a pig society that held a muddiest pig contest. The book had pictures, it showed a bunch of female human like pigs standing nude in line getting inspected before entering a mud arena. Also movies like pink panther were Joanne lumley gets out of a mud bath nude and stripes! Those were huge. I was always playing in the mud as a kid. Getting in trouble for coming home muddy or getting my bike muddy! Then I turned 13 or 14 and I remember stripping behind are house and walking nude to my grandmothers massive 40 acre garden after a good rain and wallowing in mud for hours. I did this every night every spring and summer. Then I met my wife and everything got paused. She was quite opposite of what I was into. The girl I thought was hot would be a brunette, insane body, smaller tits (sorry not a boob fan), shorter hair- like a boys cut, smoker ( I used to masturbate to the cigarette ad models) not the prettiest,Not the most perfect teeth, loved to have sex Or get nude, and loved mud as much as I did! My fantasy was I meet up with this imaginary girl, we kiss strip and walk hand in hand to the mud. I think some of my fetish may have come from my mothers side. I had an uncle who openly admitted to liking mud. I had an aunt who would walk over and literally stop if she saw mud to give herself a mud facial before coming for coffee and cigarettes. I just remember being a kid and my mom and aunt sitting on the porch smoking my aunt having hair up in a towel and her face plastered in mud smoking! She was pretty. Even though she was my aunt I wondered if she ever gave herself mud baths? I've always wondered about couples who are able to share a fetish. Is it good or bad. Does anything ever get done? I know if my wife had a mud fetish. We would constantly be together in it. Sorry for the rant.

I too consider myself pretty normal- maybe even dull. Father, husband 4 kids and now grandkids! Never told my first wife about my fetish and it was hell hiding it from her. When I got serious with my second wife I did tell her about my mud fetish. She probably thought it was a bit weird but accepted it. When the kids were little after they went to bed (if hit had been raining) I would go out and get muddy. I always thought my love of mud would diminish with age, but it hasn't. My wife did get muddy with me once, but didn't care for it and I never pushed her. I try to attend mud volleyball games to get muddy in, and I have an ATV I ride to getting muddy on. Would love to know more folks into mud and maybe meet up sometime for some muddy fun.

I too, really enjoy me, i did ever since i was just a kid, my wildest dream i want to do is to experience pure mud bliss with someone else, and in mud deep enough to full submerge into, weith the perfect consistancy, to pretend the mud would just drag me under while a mud monster is just pushing me under while i suck on it's cock.

only to re-emerge as a mud monster myself and to have pure endless bliss to hump with osmeone from days on end.

I even fully submerged just once, i got lucky to fully submerge too.

I really wanna meet up with someone who can enjoy clay or mud with me though, especially naked.

I have always liked to be totally naked from at least age two when my mother could not keep me clothed. I also used to love showing off in the school changing room with my rigid penis from age 8 onward. At about age 9 I had my 1st orgasm while stradelling a slippery, muddy pole between two sheds in the playing fields.The pressure on my anus made me cum in swaithes of pleasure. I then got lovely cum explosions while climbing the ropes in the gym. Needless to say I then always looked forward to playing in there and always got lovely, slippery spunky patches in my little white, thin cotton very short, shorts which went transparent with the wetness. I loved getting very wet and playing in the rain and I love thunderstorms when the heavy rain pumels my naked ass. In one of father's photo books, I found a picture of a naked young girl liberally covered from head to foot in used black engine oil, which turned me on like mad and I used to beat off regularly while goiing into raptures over her. Hence my love love of dirty black oil anf grease. Then a about age 14 I accidentally sank into a muddy silt island where derdging had been pumped to when I jumped over the side of a beached sailing dingy and found myself waist deep in slippery black mud. It felt so lovely, I was hooked on it and now I love its carress. I have never tired of getting totally covered in it and love shooting my copious spunk deep into its depth.

I very like sexy women's thigh boots in deep mud!!!