So you read on here all the time about people looking for ways to introduce people they know into getting messy but is there anyone like me who just couldnt think of anything worse?

I think as ive got older the humiliation side of wam has got bigger an bigger (the person has to be willing and happy to get messy just useing the worst stuff).
I think because of that it just doesnt appeal to me getting someone i love getting involved as i would enjoy seeing them that way.

Anyone else feel like this or similar to this?

I FANTASIZE about getting messy with a female partner.
But, the PRACTICAL LOGISTICS make it ABSOLUTELY IMPOSSIBLE.

I am eternally grateful for the tiny little bit I DID get to do with 2 girlfriends in my life.

But, it is FIRST and FOREMOST IMPOSSIBLE to GET TOGETHER with a partner
AT ALL, due to SCHEDULING conflicts.