Hey everyone. I really need some help and advice!
I'm really desperate to introduce my girlfriend into wam, and I would love to gunge her but I really don't know how to bring up the topic and even suggest my fetish?
Any help or ideas would be amazing? Has anyone been through this before?
Thanks

Many of us have been through this as most of us have non-splosher partners. Firstly I would say thank you for not stealth messing her under the guise of playfulness.

Firstly don't worry, most people have kinks or strange turn-ons so there will be things she wants to do/likes but is not sure how to bring them up. By asking her it could open up a whole new adventure in your relationship...

...or sploshing could be a hard limit for her. Most probably it's somewhere in between though.

Not sure the best way of doing it but how I do it (with those that don't know me) is to tell her I have a kink and that it's difficult for me to talk about as it's 'odd'. Judging on her reaction I tell her is WAM/Sploshing and about getting messy. Again judging her reaction I ask if she wants to know more. If yes then I have a document with all the details about WAM and then all the personal things about my likes, limits etc. She can read it in her own time or there and then.

This way means I don't fumble over words and I have it prepared beforehand so have re-read it to make sure it is correct.

Just 1 way that has worked for me.
Good luck.

How about having an open conversation about all of your turn on's, not just sploshing? Open it by finding out all her kinks and turn on's. At the very least you will have ideas on how to get her more aroused and the conversation will probably come round to what you enjoy too.

This is 100% the way. Be concerned with her turn ons, how to get her off. And I would say there's a difference in saying "I want to do this to you" and "I want you do this with you, and for you to be a part of this thing I enjoy."

Also, there's always my book .

Alright here is what I did
Start a good fight and see how she reacts to it than wash off in the shower or bath together

Some of our kink falls into mainstream intimacy. Every sex shop sells massage oil. Get plenty (like a liter of it. You can also use grapeseed or coconut oil which are way cheaper. Coconut oil is water soluble, so it's our preference when playing.). Offer to have an oil massage session. Dim the lights, warm the oil, and slowly spread oil over her body with loving hands. Let the experience take over. Keep adding oil until you both are wet and slick. If she likes that, you know there aren't sensory issues that would prevent her from enjoying other slick substances with you. Chocolate can come next. I went right to that to introduce my partner to WAM. But, I knew chocolate was her weakness. I suggested she allow me to give her a chocolate experience like she'd never had. I melted chocolate chips in heavy cream, cooled it to the right temp for a massage, and blindfolded her until her body was mostly covered. Before we finished, we were both completely coated and sliding over each other. She had so much fun she asked to be covered in marshmallow cream, which happened at our next session. Good luck. I hope this helps.

maybe someone else can help with the movie lists, but try and watch movies with messy/wam scenes that you like (but don't make it TOO obvious, because that will scare her away) and after the movie is over, ask her "hey, what did you think when he/she got muddy/etc..."

If she totally reacts negatively "that was SOOOO gross, i'd rather DIE than have that happen to me!" then you might even be faced with having to keep this a secret (not recommended)

OR... say you stumbled onto a kink youtube/blog/etc and it got you wondering if SHE had any kinks that she wanted to try? She will either suddenly be talking your ear off about what she wants to try, or she might turn it back to you, to have you start talking first.

But there is a risk to this - she might decide she doesn't want to be with you (or you might decide you don't want to be with her??) but IMHO, that is a risk worth taking, rather than having to keep your kinks a secret for the rest of your life, or until your secret is discovered, etc etc.

Earlier suggestions sound good enough to me as well...

TL:dr - please post suggestions of movies with WAM and/or other kinks? how about "50 shades of gray"

edit: i shall later ask this posting to be moved over to "messy minds" (it might be seen by more people on that subgroup??) I think you might even be able to find more advice from previous postings OR elsewhere on this website???

I remember reading a few threads on here about this topic- so it might be worth a look through the archives too.

Unfortunately I'm still single and haven't (yet) had the opportunity to get messy with a partner, what I'll probably do is (during foreplay or some quiet but intimate movement) is steer the conversation towards her enjoyment and ask about her kinks and fantasies, and what I can do for her.
If she then asks what I'm into, I'll probably ask if she's ever heard of sploshing? Then explain the fetish from there.
(clarifying that [personal taste] I'm not into bodily fluid stuff- considering how much cum there is in regular porn, this could lead to a pretty major misunderstanding)

If you haven't already seen it as well, please check out the groups section.

https://umd.net/groups/group/messy-minds

You'll find many similar topics and discussions there.

You are not alone here. My best advice is that if you're intimate, that you get into a discussion of things you both like, and it's a perfect opportunity to bring it up. Remember that this is playful, and not harmful at all.

Best wishes to you both,
Potato