Hi, just a question I'm curious on. If there was a guy you thought was cute, there was a bucket of gunge, and that guy wanted you to gunge them, would you travel to do it for free?
My first instinct is yes, but it would ultimately depend on the distance travelled. If it was in the same city then yes. Another city however might be a different story, unless he was willing to return the favour in some way
I'm a married bisexual with a hall pass/semi-open relationship in a situation like this. Getting together for a vanilla get together with a cis-woman would be off limits (well, unless that vanilla meant vanilla ice cream, pudding and yogurt ) But we can get together with someone who can scratch an itch the other can't do for us. So I can get together with a guy for most stuff, and specifically for messy play for someone of any gender.
Beyond that, I would want to be part of the mess too, not just driving to dump gunge on someone and taking off. And my wife is at all times my primary, so travel distance would be dependent on amount of time it takes away from her, and if she also has something to do at the time.
I was one of the small number that voted no, just because I only really like to sub for gunge stuff. But from the results it looks like the hypothetical cute guy won't be too devastated
PrinceJ said: I was one of the small number that voted no, just because I only really like to sub for gunge stuff. But from the results it looks like the hypothetical cute guy won't be too devastated
Surely arranging to be a sub for a gunging, on a website like UMD, is easier than arranging to be a dom
steve said: I'm a married bisexual with a hall pass/semi-open relationship in a situation like this. Getting together for a vanilla get together with a cis-woman would be off limits (well, unless that vanilla meant vanilla ice cream, pudding and yogurt ) But we can get together with someone who can scratch an itch the other can't do for us. So I can get together with a guy for most stuff, and specifically for messy play for someone of any gender.
Beyond that, I would want to be part of the mess too, not just driving to dump gunge on someone and taking off. And my wife is at all times my primary, so travel distance would be dependent on amount of time it takes away from her, and if she also has something to do at the time.
Love you, too
) But we can get together with someone who can scratch an itch the other can't do for us. So I can get together with a guy for most stuff, and specifically for messy play for someone of any gender. 
