I count myself very lucky to have found someone willing to give WAM a try, but so far her opinions of it tend to be more towards the ways in which WAM and mess can be used for humiliation rather than the ways in which it can be used for fun, silliness, and sexiness. Leading up to our attempt at trying it (which is most likely going to be something akin to a "messy drinking game" - array of sweets, deck of cards, trade turns drawing cards, face card means you mess the other, handful of other "actions" tied to other cards, etc. etc.), I'd like to get her a bit more excited about it.

Does anyone know of any good photosets or videos (free ones always a bonus) that are more "couple oriented" and exhibit a more "fun" or "sensual" atmosphere in a manner that's more readily apparent?

I've been having trouble locating any decent ones myself. Her views are quite traditional when it comes to her opinion of sexy (despite a kinky personality), so the images more or less need to pie her in the face with those sentiments.

Any help is greatly appreciated! Thanks!

That's a really interesting question My fella got me into WAM and like your girlfriend, my main concern was the humiliation aspect, which isn't really my thing. He was keen to start off (and still now to continue) with things that I enjoy, so that we're both getting the most out of our messy sessions. I don't think there are many sexy couples movies out there - I haven't managed to find any anyway
As you may know, I have a few movies on here, the most recent 'black and white gunge' one being the most sensual, but we haven't done a 'couples' video as yet... we might have to get on that!

It's a great idea to make it as fun as possible, with games and forfeits, but I would say keep it simple, at least to start with, so you don't overwhelm her My first ever wam experience was with natrosol gunge and I think it was a perfect first time substance for me, as I'd seen gunge tanks before and I knew what to expect. Plus I loved the feeling of the slippery, slimy gunge on my skin! It felt very sexy and I didn't end up smelling of dairy! I think it's a really good idea for you to show her some examples of fun & sexy wam before throwing her in the deep end

Obviously I can only speak from my own feelings and experience, but my advice would be to avoid pies or pie videos until she's more open to it. For me this is the most humiliating variation of WAM (more so than savoury, which I've never had an issue with!).

Mostly, keep her laughing so she has loads of fun and keep telling her how hot & sexy she is - compliments will always go down well!

Have fun and let us know how it goes

JnC x

I'll be really interested in the results of this thread. I've looked myself for sensual/playful videos of couples; I came up with nothing either.

I ended up collecting together a lot of still images that had the right mood and making a good old-fashioned DIY collage. (Seriously guys, stop laughing. I've always thought that scissors and glue were very romantic indeed... lol)

I'm pretty sure I saved this one from the UMD; sadly I have no idea whether it's from a video or not. Perhaps someone can identify the photoset?

I wish you all the best with your forthcoming experience, too.

That is a very sexy/sensual image

Good luck Einbrecher. Did you ever catch any of Messy Lady's movies and pictures?

You're a couple months too late. My wife and I had a site you would have enjoyed. Mostly it was her but I was in some of the sets, all in the spirit of fun, lots of laughing, drinking... PM me if you would like. I may be able to help you out.

You may find something you like at my store, we role play and have a good deal of fun and end up in some sensual situations as well

Not to be morbid, but, talk about a Freudian slip:
I initially misread the title of this thread as:

"Getting a partner executed about WAM"

Maybe they do that sort of thing in China or Iran. Hopefully not in the UK.
Unless you happen to be WAM partner to the queen.

Yeah, not quite Dr. Zoidberg - I'd rather she stick around for a while, lol.

Thanks for the tip Mistress C, but judging from the previews, that's not quite what I'm looking for. Something she's said after I've showed her her various WAM images in the past is that she doesn't like the concept of the model "just sitting there and taking it," which is a big part of why she sees it as humiliating. Even though she's rather submissive in a kink sense and likes being tied up, if there's too much of a disconnect between what I'm doing and what she's receiving, she doesn't like it.

That's good advice JellynCustard, though I haven't quite brought her around to slime/gunge yet. I think it's too foreign to her to really associate with, whereas things like whipped cream or pudding she uses or cooks with more often. Haven't really mentioned the whole "smelling of dairy" bit yet...but I think that's something rather left unsaid for now, lol. Not surprisingly, I didn't really think of pies in that sense, and it would definitely explain some of her reluctance. We've been tweaking the parameters of our game (something she's had plenty of say in). I think we decided to only have two pies, one reserved for each joker in the deck.