"I think a lot of the stuff on messygirl dot com looks amazing (and in my personal experience, it honestly is)."
Last week, I matched with someone who had some WAM photos on his Feeld profile.
I've had first dates where someone bought me a drink, coffee, or dinner. Before yesterday, I had never had a first date where we went to a restaurant supply store to pick up 26 pounds of Nutella. Or to Costco for a sheet cake. Or to my kitchen to whip a dozen boxes of cake mix, some applesauce, and some food colouring into several litres of green slime.
Of course, this all happened after a lovely brunch together. And before the most adorable and tender cleanup session.
We had *so much* fun together, totally trashing one another and coating each other with chocolatey goo until we could barely get out of the inflatable pool from the weight and stickiness. I posted some pics on my profile!
It's so wonderful to meet an honest-to-goodness partner in WAM. We've both had partners get us messy before, but there's a big difference between someone who's just going along with you (kind as that can be) and someone who is getting just as much pleasure from the mess as you are.
There were a handful of times, as we were lying there in a pool of thick, sticky chocolate, when we said to each other "I bet there are folks on UMD who wish they were us right now."
Honestly, it was as good a date as I've ever had in my life. And it won't be our last!
(btw, I'll let my partner chime in and identify himself if he wants to)
Nice. I'm on Feeld too and open about my kinks, I have seen maybe 1 other splosher on there but in 3 months no one has liked my profile. Personally I think it's my age as who wouldn't want to be covered in custard?
Good for you! It's incredibly exciting when you finally meet another wammer and have fun with them. Finally being in that space where you both have that kind of connection feels really special. Knowing that they're just as turned on as you are, knowing that they want to see you messy makes getting messy even more elevated! Thanks for sharing, you reminded me of how special that moment is when you finally get to have that experience So happy for you, hope it turns into something sticky and sweet