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"First time nerves"
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So my partner and I have been together for about 8 years, about a year or so ago she found out about my secret fetish and it was awkward to say the least. We never really discussed it, although it's been brought up here and there, I'm a somewhat quiet closed off person so I'd just instantly change the topic, I could tell she felt bad too because obviously I would of brought it up to her if I wanted her to know, but now we're a lot more open with each other and have talked about it more recently and she brought up giving it a shot, I'm absolutely nervous as hell for it, was just looking for any first time advice, we've talked about using chocolate sauce and pudding, but I'm definitely big into slime also, and was curious of good recipes, places I could buy it, and more specifically slime safe for sex to prevent a uti, I've been into this for a long time and could never see the day where I'd actually get to live it out for real, thanks in advance for any help/suggestions!
Maybe start with a tease - I think it could be a bit daunting to set up for a big session where all the preparation work may take some of the playfulness away when you haven't done it together before. If you start with a simple but effective ingredient like a carton custard in quite a casual way (but make sure also intimate and flirty) in the kitchen or bathroom, it's enough to get a feel for being messy together without any hard work involved and you'll soon know whether you are hungry to escalate to greater heights.
That's my thought anyway.
That's my thought anyway.
Nikki
Just don't use anything either of you have a good allergy to, even if not eating it.
Dish soap helps get geese and oils out and adding oil to anything you mix that's edible helps prevent flour clumps cause if you get those little balls of unlocked stuff in hair it's super hard to get out.
Good luck and have fun!
Dish soap helps get geese and oils out and adding oil to anything you mix that's edible helps prevent flour clumps cause if you get those little balls of unlocked stuff in hair it's super hard to get out.
Good luck and have fun!
GreenRanger89 said: So my partner and I have been together for about 8 years, about a year or so ago she found out about my secret fetish and it was awkward to say the least. We never really discussed it, although it's been brought up here and there, I'm a somewhat quiet closed off person so I'd just instantly change the topic, I could tell she felt bad too because obviously I would of brought it up to her if I wanted her to know, but now we're a lot more open with each other and have talked about it more recently and she brought up giving it a shot, I'm absolutely nervous as hell for it, was just looking for any first time advice, we've talked about using chocolate sauce and pudding, but I'm definitely big into slime also, and was curious of good recipes, places I could buy it, and more specifically slime safe for sex to prevent a uti, I've been into this for a long time and could never see the day where I'd actually get to live it out for real, thanks in advance for any help/suggestions!
There are a lot of pros who I'm sure have more experience with me since I've always done solo messy sessions but, Don't feel you have to go all in on the first session maybe ease her into it a little first. chocolate sauce or whipped cream to tease and play with each other with the sensation. But ease your way into things so it doesn't overwhelm her.
And don't forget to really thank her for being willing to do something you enjoy. Definitely return the favor for her for something she wants to try.
luvs2pie said: Just don't use anything either of you have a good allergy to, even if not eating it.
Dish soap helps get geese and oils out and adding oil to anything you mix that's edible helps prevent flour clumps cause if you get those little balls of unlocked stuff in hair it's super hard to get out.
Good luck and have fun!
Dish soap helps get geese and oils out and adding oil to anything you mix that's edible helps prevent flour clumps cause if you get those little balls of unlocked stuff in hair it's super hard to get out.
Good luck and have fun!
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Also make sure you both have a pathway to cleanup with after your both done so that clean up isn't to much of a burden on both of you
Paint with play and surrender
We prep garbage bags inside paper bags w handles so it's standing up to dump stuff into n tarp the r tire shower w plastic table clothes from $ store w painters tape and do area in front of the tub as well n have path to sink.
Wife had the idea to by a shower stool which I also tape w garbage bags so she can sit comfortably while I pie n slime her.
Oh and make sure some of the gunge or slime is warmed up but not burning hot in middle helps keep the session going vs it gets freezing cold and then u gotta speed up the play time or not get to use it all
Wife had the idea to by a shower stool which I also tape w garbage bags so she can sit comfortably while I pie n slime her.
Oh and make sure some of the gunge or slime is warmed up but not burning hot in middle helps keep the session going vs it gets freezing cold and then u gotta speed up the play time or not get to use it all
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