I don't usually entertain those "I wish I was there with them" fantasies. Just not my thing. These fetish parties were the exception. Jealous of you!

How many of these fetish party videos do you have/plan to release?

Fuck, I was there and I'm STILL jealous of me!

Actually, the real awesome shit was the pie parties I used to have in Japan before Neil Edwards talked me into shooting something with the aim of possibly selling online. We had somewhere between 15 and 20 of these parties with 4 to 8 attendees each time. The ratio always fell between half girls/half guys and all girls/me. And by, like, the third party, everyone was aware that the pies were a fetish for me; but since I just made it fun and didn't act weird or awkward, nobody had a problem with it. So, by the time I shot my first video for Pied Asian Girls, I had pied a TON of hot young Japanese girls (and most of them pied me back!) - like, I don't know how many, but it would probably be over 50 girls. I couldn't begin to estimate the number I've times I've been pied in the face.

But this just got me thinking: no part of my sexual fetish involves getting pied myself. I have no problem with it, but it doesn't turn me on. If we're playing in a group and someone pies me as part of a game or whatever, it's fun and it might make me laugh. If I'm one-on-one with a lover and she wants to pie me, I've always just rolled with it to please her. And I've been pied as part of several of my shoots (Pie Party 1 and 2, plus a few where the co-ed footage has been left out, like Sakura's Halloween Quiz, Midori's Japanese Goth Girl, Mami's Back for More, etc.), but it doesn't often occur to me to put myself or other guys in the videos as pie recipients because the thought doesn't turn me on.

So, I have a question for other guys out there who shoot videos or photos of girls getting pied/slimed: how often have you yourself been pied/slimed/messed up? Is anyone out there posting/selling videos but has never shown images of themselves being pied, even though they regularly take pies? Also, is there anyone producing videos featuring only models getting pied, even though the producer themselves is also turned on by being pied?

And Dude, one for you specifically: how many times has the wife said, "Make a little extra, cuz you're getting messy tonight, too!"?

EDIT:
Regarding my mention of vids where the co-ed footage has been left out, I'm not talking about footage that was private. I mean I shot the vids with the intention of also releasing co-ed versions. I did release both versions of Japanese Goth Girl and Back for More on my PiedAsianGirls.com site, but the sales on the co-ed versions were almost non-existent. However, sales on co-ed scenes here on UMD are much better, so I'm thinking about digging out all the old co-ed footage and releasing it. Anyone have any thoughts? Would anyone be more interested in a scene with, for example, Midori and me trading pies to the face than a video of just her receiving? (I'd still have the Midori-only version available too.)

I've only shot three of the Fetish Party scenes. (Not to be confused with the private "pie parties" discussed above.) #1 and #2 featured Maichin, and both of those are now available here in my UMD store and on PiedAsianGirls.com.

#3 features a model named Nanako, who also appeared in a solo scene called "A Pie Wish." Nanako is a friend who enjoyed being a part of the whole pie video thing for a while, but a few years ago she requested, as a friend, that I remove her image from any site/store I had and not use her image in any promotional posts anywhere. I complied with her wishes, so she isn't shown or mentioned anywhere.

The Fetish Party #2 video I just uploaded to my UMD store this week actually used to be parties #2 and #3 combined, so the one video had footage of Maichin and Nanako. However, I didn't want to keep explaining the situation and answering questions and having to send screenshots to interested customers in private messages, so I just edited her footage out and changed the title of the video.

So, 3 shot and 2 available. BUT... now that I've finished school and started a new job, I'm hoping to start shooting new stuff as early as next year. So, at some point I might do more fetish parties, as long as I can find models who are into it the way Maichin and Nanako were.

We think a lot alike with the "leave the coed footage on the cutting room floor" decision. The guy getting messy is a killer for me. Even seeing pics of the male producer in the download store is enough to make me come back another day, even if the video I meant to buy is girl-only. It just ruins it for me.

Even more so when the guy is blatantly satisfying his own kink, and can't (or isn't bothering to) play it cool or fun. At least a disclaimer of "I indulge my own kinks in this video" would be appreciated.

Just addressing some things you said - that wasn't aimed at you.

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For me and the Mrs., our thing developed as our relationship deepened.

For the first few years, it was all her getting messy. And like my thoughts above, the very idea of me getting messy was not only not interesting, but a turnoff. Looking back, I know that it was my fear of not wanting to push things too hard, too fast with my wife, whom I was still in awe of after she didn't divorce me upon learning of my fetish.

The first few times we played, it was with shaving cream. I can still feel how my heart was about to beat out of my chest the first time I ran two hands full of shaving cream over her face.

After a few months of that, I worked up the courage to introduce cake batter, and I thought FOR SURE that she was going to say "enough you fucking American weirdo!". Not only did she not do that, but she took the lead in mixing up the five boxes of batter and food coloring that's become our SOP for one sliming (well...maybe six boxes now).

And again, the first time I upended a bucket of green cake batter, I thought I was gonna stroke out right there. There's no way she's ok in letting this happen on the regular!

After those first few sessions, I allowed myself to believe her when she said that she was ok with it, and we fell into a nice little rhythm. I was on cruise control at work, so I had a lot of emotional capacity to focus on her and our relationship. We had a lot of fun. Role-playing, costumes, you name it.

But it was all her getting messy. She never asked to "take revenge" and I never brought up the idea.

One time out of the blue (I think it was after our bakery pie and pink slime session) I was helping her clean up and the desire to be messy with her hit me like a freight train, but we had already used everything and finished cleaning for that session and I was STILL afraid to weird her out more, so I said nothing, lol.

But I couldn't get the thought out of my head, and months later I brought it up over the phone during one of my deployments. She was excited that I brought it up and we agreed that when I came home, we would celebrate with some pies and brownie batter.

And celebrate we did, holy fuck.

For me, this was all a reflection of how deeply ashamed I was of my fetish. I had always wanted to get messy with her, but I was just so afraid of the rejection, even after a few years of marriage and a handful of messy sessions.

But by this point I was comfortable enough, and when she put that pie in my face for the first time that day, we reached a level of trust that brought our relationship to a whole new level. And that trust is really what turns me on, more than the pies and slime.

So yeah, my fetish is pies and slime, but the real turn-on is much deeper than that.

For me, it's that I finally allowed myself to trust someone with something to central to who I am as a person. For her, she realizes how I've confided in her and the control it gives her over me, and she loves it.

Fucking finally getting to your question...

Yeah she's gotten me messy a bunch of times. Especially when we were trying to get pregnant. I made the most out of that time because I knew kids were going to take over our lives. These days, deciding who's going to wear what and what we're going to use has actually become foreplay for us. She teases the hell out of me with it. Talks dirty in the bakery aisle at the grocery store, texts me pictures of pies at a nearby diner, things like that.

We'll still do the odd her-only session, but those are becoming a rarity since our time is so stretched with the kids. Now, whenever we do get the chance I want to make the most of it, and so we both wind up just destroying each other.

That's a fucking awesome story, man! Seriously fucking awesome. Thank you for sharing that.