Why is the male messy forum constantly inundated with female only posts and content? Defeats the object of the filter when you still end up with a load of posts irrelevant to male messiness. Surely the filter selection should be mandatory?

find what is even worse is the so-called male ones with women in, just put them under co-ed and admit what you are offering, saves everybody wasting their time

"constantly inundated"? I don't find this to be the case at all. Heaven forbid you might accidentally see a boob. Just ignore it or click through to the next thread if there's co-ed or female content on the male forum that you're not into.

Why would anyone be into female-only content on a supposedly male material forum?

Heaven forbid you actually engage in this conversation instead of shaming people for how they feel. You responded nearly word for word the same way when I brought this up.

It is valid.
Get into it or get over it.

Some people don't want to see women in that context... accept that not everyone feels the same way you do. Point of gender filter = not having to filter manually and just click through and not look... truth is we are constantly inundated so what's so accidental about that? Jeez man... I just wish you understood where you are when you say all that nonsense.

If there's something posted in the wrong forum, click 'Report' and inform the administrators. I've done that before and posts have been moved.

Yes but they sneak by on a technicality...

guys... there is no justification... we do not want to see female content...

the technicality is that like previously mentioned 30% has female content.. which means they may say it is male and there's a male getting messed up but by a woman.. thus it is COED, not male... admin is GREAT at taking flags into consideration but there are still posts that are off the mark.

I'm glad this conversation keeps coming up!!!

Yeah, exactly, it's this simple. I've done this before too, it's the best practical solution.


I'm not aroused by female content either. But the way one or two people (only a small minority) overreact sometimes feels like "ew women are gross" juvenalia, like you hate seeing women in any sexual context or feel you have to prove how gay you are or something, or you don't like bi and straight people intruding on your clique. I can understand gay wammers finding female content boring or uninteresting, but I don't get why one or two act like it's disgusting. Just report it and have the post moved to the correct place.

In Bugs Bunny voice:

"Whata werld!"

I too had assumed that when I set male only that would be all that I would see The male only 'wall' is the same and shows women (and no not just trans), but to be honest, I don't choose to subscribe and am happy to accept a few imperfections on an otherwise great site. I don't feel i am in any position to criticise....

Patrick

So I'm gay. I have never been with a woman, I have never been attracted to a woman. I knew i was 'different' when i was about 7yo and knew I was gay at 13yo. I'm now 48yo. I suspect that I am not going to change my view. I don't dislike women but I don't want to see them naked/semi naked and I don't want to see them gunged.

I am only interested in male only content for the above reasons and it shouldn't be too difficult to have that.

soooo... here's the thing.. I'm not going to react to your misperceptions... but I will say this.. you are coming off very judgemental and that's not fair. THIS is a very unique community in and of itself and for your behavior to be present it makes it hard to want to participate... we all have preferences!! What in the world is the big deal about accepting that without it turning into someone (like you) thinking this concern is from only one or two people so why can't they conform.... some people don't care some people don't want to say anything because they might be nervous they're the only one... but they are not and I am not.. so again just stop shitting on people for having preferences.. I think that's really all I'm trying to say..
peace

I totally agree with this, but from another perspective. Male wam does nothing for me, but I keep my settings to "all" in case I can see something new or inventive thought of by a man. I can soon skip over anything than doesn't appeal and not get all shirty if I accidentally spot something that I don't like. Grow up guys, mistakes happen, get over it.