I'm new to this site but have been had WAM as a kink for as long as I can remember. The thing is, it's been a little frustrating to find people that share my interest and are also looking to potentially date.

I dont want to sound weird or creepy when I say this. But I truly am looking for someone to share this with and am starting to think that wont ever happen. Especially considering how Male dominated this site/kink seems to be (which is another question of its own). And not to mention how private I keep this part of my life. This alone makes it very hard for me to put this side of myself out there (although I've dated several other girls outside the WAM world). It's kind of crazy because in actuality I am a very outgoing and driven person.

Has anyone had any success with this or found someone with similar interests?

Check out the RELATIONSHIPS group.

You're looking for the traditional (WAM) unicorn, they exist but are extremely rare. You have to ask yourself what you really want. Do you want someone to get messy with, or someone to spend your life with. Chances are very good that you can find one or the other, but not both in the same person. What I mean by that is you're less likely going to find a WAMmer/Splosher to date than find someone to date that may WAM/splosh with you.

There are a lot of people here in relationships where their SO doesn't like WAM and/or won't even indulge them in it. I was one of them.

But there are also a lot of people here in relationships where their SO has NO IDEA they are into this, and they are too afraid to talk about it to them.

Now, some of that later group eventually does talk to them, and one of two things happens. Their partner responds favorably, or unfavorably. One partner may decide to try it out and will maybe even find they like it. Many others will try it and find it's not their thing. But if they love their partner and care about them, will indulge them from time to time.

Finally there are some in that group whose worst fears will come to pass. They'll tell their spouse of X amount of years that they like it, and the spouse will call them horrible things, want a divorce, etc.

The thing is I don't know you, what you want, or even think you may need. But I think if what you want is a relationship, it can't revolve around WAM. It needs to revolve around the people involved. If WAM is something you want sexually, then whenever in dating you talk about sex, you should bring both bring up and discuss your kinks. No use beating around the bush, if you're fucking or talking about fucking, you should be able to talk about the things you specifically like in your sex life.

As for meeting people, you could always go on the Vegas trip.

Yeah, this.

In 20+ years of dating I have told all of my partners about my kink. Some did it, most did not, some have said they will but I declined as I don't think they would enjoy it, only 1 has shown revulsion to it.
I have dated 1 (unicorn) splosher, we lasted 4 weeks as while we shared a kink, we didn't fit in other ways.
One of my current GFs I have been with for over 8 years, we have sploshed, she has appeared in a splosh video! But it's not her kink at all, it's just about asking and reciprocating.

Ask yourself what is important, just kink? go to an event and hope or hire a sex worker.
Long term? Look for someone you click with and hope they are open to sploshing as you would be to anything they might ask. I find this is the best way and more likely to happen.

As always, YMMV