Seems to be an abundance of us males around here in Chicagoland, but females less so. As a straight male, that's unfortunate. If you scrounge up one+ females and wanna do some group play, I'd be good for that.
Well, a few of us Chicagoland males so far. Any messy-loving women around Chicago? Perhaps we can coordinate a group messy play party if so. With the holidays coming up shortly, there might be some of us that have some time off where we could tentatively target for a gathering. Speaking for myself, I've got the entire post-Christmas week of 12/26 off work, and would be happy to try and act as coordinator. Could do anything from some messy games to as kinky or daring as folks are comfortable with. Would want to find a way for it to be most comfortable and safe for those attending. Don't want to scare anybody off.
Anyway, just a thought. For me, it wouldn't be worth it for just men attending, but perhaps we could get some of the women out there interested.