Ok so over the last while ive been asked by certain members to get messy one way or the other and I have never had any problem with that,I love to record,make a video and then post it here with some gifs and pics,but ive noticed lately that while I get excited and look forward to getting messy,when the time comes im kinda like ehh,I cant really be bothered,id have to set up,and afterwards clean up,I mean I actually go out and buy the things I need to have a messy season everytime,ive a shit load of supplies but as I said when the time comes I just cant be bothered,dont get me wrong I love wam and visit this site a few times daily,so has this ever happened to any of you guys before,is it just a kinda slump im going through or could my interest be just going,I used to absolutely love getting messy before

Maybe you should try something new, something different, get messy with other stuff or other style, get messy with someone, roll in a new mud puddle, just be creative and search a new way , I'm sure that you will recover the love for the mess

No. you're not alone, i am starting to feel this way too even though its a very rare occasion when i do get chance to play, i just cant seem to be bothered with all the set up and clean up after

It's possible to get bored with your fetish or fetishes
(it happened to me for a few years)especially if it doesn't involve another person.
Imagination just doesn't cut it sometimes.
Yeah,the clean up-pain in the ass,I just don't want to be bothered even
if it's just to pie my self in the shower...I'm getting old and lazy I guess.
I sometimes consider my pie fetish a burden and a curse.
I don't know how it is in the GBT WAM community but for a straight guy who likes
to get pied by girls finding a female friend willing to accept your fetish and not
think you're a wacko is rare.
On a more positive side I recently found out that my testosterone was low and I've
been on treatment for a few months now and I'm finding a renewed interest in my old pleasures and more energy as well.Low T can effect even young guys and you may want to look into it.

I think it doesn't matter what fetish it is, it comes to all of us with age (admittedly some sooner than others regardless of how old you are).

Think it's all relative though, very much the same as sex... sometimes people just loose interest (either for a while, or more permanently) and in some cases then have a recurrence further down the line.

I'd just go with what your body and mind is telling you. There is no right or wrong answer and whatever you do it's absolutely fine.

That needs changing

No matter what, fetish or otherwise, at some point you're probably going to say 'Why bother - it's too much work," or something along those lines. I've been there - getting a few things together and then deciding that I'd rather do something else instead of cleaning of a mess afterwards. I'm sure even Roger Ebert got tired of watching film after film, even though he was getting paid to do it

As I get older I find that I am less sexually aroused by my mud fetish, but it doesn't lessen my desire to get muddy. I still love to find a good mud hole and get totally covered. I just may not have that raging hardon that I did when I was younger.

I think this comes in seasons for everyone. I did a few pies this week and while it felt great, I know that I had put off the intended day to do it a few times. I think life plays a part of it too. I travel a lot for work, so for me to do any type of a session is hard to commit to and there are a few guys in MI that I want to meet up with.

I'm with you on the cleanup part though. After the last person I met up with just up and bailed mid-session it's kind of left a little bit of hesitation to do a big session at all because of the time to clean up.

Ditto.
I've learned to appreciate the mellowing though, kind of relaxing in a way.

I think the wam things coming on me periodically...in a period i absolutely not interested for weeks, then the other period i feel myself like an addict.
This helping me separating my "civil" life from my wam life.