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"Alter Egos"
Hi all
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
We (I assume) get a kick for getting messy, but say you are at a gathering with family or people unaware of your kink. By accident, a sloppy cream cake is dropped on your lap. Now, secretly, you may love this and find it a turn-on, but how do you react?
I find that if im just about in general with others (non wammers), I have a bit of aversion to mess. Deep down, I love it, but I seem to throw up a fortress to protect my WAM interest. There are lots of turning my nose up and pulling faces at it (where I really want to slop it all over). So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I have seen various comments of celebrities that seem to love getting messy and have been classed with 'I bet they're a secret Wammer'.
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
Well, gawd, this is a bit deep for me, not a witty bad pun in sight.
Thanks for reading it anyway, I really respect this community
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
We (I assume) get a kick for getting messy, but say you are at a gathering with family or people unaware of your kink. By accident, a sloppy cream cake is dropped on your lap. Now, secretly, you may love this and find it a turn-on, but how do you react?
I find that if im just about in general with others (non wammers), I have a bit of aversion to mess. Deep down, I love it, but I seem to throw up a fortress to protect my WAM interest. There are lots of turning my nose up and pulling faces at it (where I really want to slop it all over). So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I have seen various comments of celebrities that seem to love getting messy and have been classed with 'I bet they're a secret Wammer'.
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
Well, gawd, this is a bit deep for me, not a witty bad pun in sight.
Thanks for reading it anyway, I really respect this community
I've got a pie, and I know how the throw it.
LeRex said: Hi all
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
Glad I'm not the only one who was thinking this
. Especially true since some of us don't show our faces or use our real names. The mess does make a great disguise.
LeRex said: We (I assume) get a kick for getting messy, but say you are at a gathering with family or people unaware of your kink. By accident, a sloppy cream cake is dropped on your lap. Now, secretly, you may love this and find it a turn-on, but how do you react?
While the actual stimuli may be a bit unusual, it is really no different than sitting across from a really attractive woman on a bus; just do your best to hide your boner
-JD
Absolutely, which is why my alter ego, is the total opposite of real life.
I have a fear of rejection, but it's also a funny school like secret that only my partner and I know about. The little glance when something messy comes on TV.
It has to be that like, especially after family reaction to the likes of Only Fans.
Patsy Pie is for here and private
I have a fear of rejection, but it's also a funny school like secret that only my partner and I know about. The little glance when something messy comes on TV.
It has to be that like, especially after family reaction to the likes of Only Fans.
Patsy Pie is for here and private
LeRex said: Hi all
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. [...] So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. [...] So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
I think that's most of us, if not all.
The first and most-obvious reason is that anything to do even tangentially with sex tends to be something we keep to ourselves. You don't walk into the lunchroom at work or the pub with your mates and openly discuss details of what you and your partner got up to last night (even if it was just 20 minutes in the missionary position with nary a food product in sight). Even much more so then if what you got up to is anything anyone might consider to be outside of normal. (Even though "normal" is just a setting on the clothes dryer.)
Secondly is the impact that our "kink" could have on each of us - either personally and/or professionally - if it were to find its way outside of our community. Even in our more "woke", open-minded society, there is the possibility that our involvement in WAM could be held against us - branding us as "deviant", or as someone who shouldn't be in a particular employment position (much in the same way that once-upon-a-time it used to be legal to fire someone if they were discovered to be homosexual).
For example (and I may not recall all the details perfectly), but I have a memory from a number of years ago that someone* in our community was going through a child custody battle and that their ex-partner was using (or attempting to use) WAM as a weapon to try to gain custody of the child.
So, yeah. When there's so many ways that our involvement in this could come back to hurt us, there's really no upside to letting our kink-flag fly outside of the UMD ....
* I will not name the UMD member in question, and if anyone (besides the member themself) recognizes the story I would ask that you join me in respecting the member's privacy. If they wish to add to my comment then that should be their choice, and theirs alone.
1. I think it should be obvious that Barry McCockiner is not my real namelol. But also exactly three people on this site know my real name.
2. As for the other points it really just depends on the situation. I generally am only into watching someone get WAMmed, but I've had a few instances that make me think otherwise.
1. Ran a dunk tank for community service hours at my church, but kind of lost control of the situation and it got to the point where random people were going up and getting dunked and I eventually did the same. Whether that was my inner WAMmer showing through or just peer pressure, I'm not sure.
2. My college sports team did a TikTok contest where we just did stupid but non-dangerous stunts. One team all did fully clothed belly flops into the pool and I was inclined, for no reason whatsoever, to jump in fully clothed too.
2. As for the other points it really just depends on the situation. I generally am only into watching someone get WAMmed, but I've had a few instances that make me think otherwise.
1. Ran a dunk tank for community service hours at my church, but kind of lost control of the situation and it got to the point where random people were going up and getting dunked and I eventually did the same. Whether that was my inner WAMmer showing through or just peer pressure, I'm not sure.
2. My college sports team did a TikTok contest where we just did stupid but non-dangerous stunts. One team all did fully clothed belly flops into the pool and I was inclined, for no reason whatsoever, to jump in fully clothed too.
LeRex said: Hi all
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
We (I assume) get a kick for getting messy, but say you are at a gathering with family or people unaware of your kink. By accident, a sloppy cream cake is dropped on your lap. Now, secretly, you may love this and find it a turn-on, but how do you react?
I find that if im just about in general with others (non wammers), I have a bit of aversion to mess. Deep down, I love it, but I seem to throw up a fortress to protect my WAM interest. There are lots of turning my nose up and pulling faces at it (where I really want to slop it all over). So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I have seen various comments of celebrities that seem to love getting messy and have been classed with 'I bet they're a secret Wammer'.
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
Well, gawd, this is a bit deep for me, not a witty bad pun in sight.
Thanks for reading it anyway, I really respect this community
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
We (I assume) get a kick for getting messy, but say you are at a gathering with family or people unaware of your kink. By accident, a sloppy cream cake is dropped on your lap. Now, secretly, you may love this and find it a turn-on, but how do you react?
I find that if im just about in general with others (non wammers), I have a bit of aversion to mess. Deep down, I love it, but I seem to throw up a fortress to protect my WAM interest. There are lots of turning my nose up and pulling faces at it (where I really want to slop it all over). So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I have seen various comments of celebrities that seem to love getting messy and have been classed with 'I bet they're a secret Wammer'.
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
Well, gawd, this is a bit deep for me, not a witty bad pun in sight.
Thanks for reading it anyway, I really respect this community
I've though of this a lot and it wasn't till I started meeting other wammers in person where I was able to get closer to myself and fear less
I appreciate you to
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Even though I don't (and likely won't) post pics or videos, I definitely think of my UMD self as a "wilder" alter ego. The ways in which I express my enthusiasm for seeing WAM are pretty incongruous with who I am in day-to-day life. And this isn't at all uncommon based on who I've spoken to about it. I'm glad I've reached a point where it's no longer a source of shame, because frankly it's no one's business in my daily life what arouses me (aside from a partner). By it's very nature though, the thought of grown adults covering themselves in mess for pleasure (or watching others do it) and then later going about a regular job of any sort is...kind of exhilarating. 
LeRex said: Hi all
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
We (I assume) get a kick for getting messy, but say you are at a gathering with family or people unaware of your kink. By accident, a sloppy cream cake is dropped on your lap. Now, secretly, you may love this and find it a turn-on, but how do you react?
I find that if im just about in general with others (non wammers), I have a bit of aversion to mess. Deep down, I love it, but I seem to throw up a fortress to protect my WAM interest. There are lots of turning my nose up and pulling faces at it (where I really want to slop it all over). So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I have seen various comments of celebrities that seem to love getting messy and have been classed with 'I bet they're a secret Wammer'.
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
Well, gawd, this is a bit deep for me, not a witty bad pun in sight.
Thanks for reading it anyway, I really respect this community
I was just thinking about the whole WAM community and basically what we are into and wondered if we actually all have alter egos. How does WAM actually affect everyday stuff. Are we a normal Clark Kent, but secretly, we are SuperWammer?
We (I assume) get a kick for getting messy, but say you are at a gathering with family or people unaware of your kink. By accident, a sloppy cream cake is dropped on your lap. Now, secretly, you may love this and find it a turn-on, but how do you react?
I find that if im just about in general with others (non wammers), I have a bit of aversion to mess. Deep down, I love it, but I seem to throw up a fortress to protect my WAM interest. There are lots of turning my nose up and pulling faces at it (where I really want to slop it all over). So, do I have a non-WAM alter ego?
One that doesn't like mess?
Is anybody else the same?
I have seen various comments of celebrities that seem to love getting messy and have been classed with 'I bet they're a secret Wammer'.
I guess that's why places like here are great, as it is a community where we all share the same interests and can talk without (in the most part) being judged or seen as strange.
The non-WAM alter egos are left at the log in button.
Like I say, this is just my view, but it would be interesting to know if others are the same, or whether it's just me.
Well, gawd, this is a bit deep for me, not a witty bad pun in sight.
Thanks for reading it anyway, I really respect this community
Is this really any different than a foot fetishist at the beach?
Certainly if we cannot control our erotic impulses in public, behave discretely and recognize time, place and manner limitations we have more pressing and serious concerns than having an unusual and largely benign fetish.
Maybe less Clark Kent and Superman and more Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Pyde.
I've done a lot of thinking about this because I wonder how fake my personalities at work and onscreen are. While onscreen, I can rationalize it as I'm playing a character, in a universe with lore of it's own, so the hardest part is staying in character.
At work, I'm totally different than at home.
I've come to the conclusion that at work, my personality is just as real as when I'm at home, the difference is one is curated, while the other is unfiltered. It's not that I can't be the person I am at work when I'm at home, it's that it's mentally draining.
And if a sudden stimulus were to happen in public, I'd be more terrified than anything. Because I'd be repeating to myself "Don't be weird, don't be weird, don't be weird..." And then proceed to be irrational as I overcompensate to try to act nonchalant.
I've done a lot of thinking about this because I wonder how fake my personalities at work and onscreen are. While onscreen, I can rationalize it as I'm playing a character, in a universe with lore of it's own, so the hardest part is staying in character.
At work, I'm totally different than at home.
I've come to the conclusion that at work, my personality is just as real as when I'm at home, the difference is one is curated, while the other is unfiltered. It's not that I can't be the person I am at work when I'm at home, it's that it's mentally draining.
And if a sudden stimulus were to happen in public, I'd be more terrified than anything. Because I'd be repeating to myself "Don't be weird, don't be weird, don't be weird..." And then proceed to be irrational as I overcompensate to try to act nonchalant.
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