Is it really possible to find a female who wants to mess a man in person or on cam on this site?

Well, I've been here 26 years and it hasn't happened yet. But, if you think of ladies as people first, and respect them as such, rather than just as a female to pie you....Then, attend a social event, meet people, treat them with respect. That's what happened to me, I've gone on to have several 1-1 meets, with proper regard for safety and within agreed boundaries, and yes dreams can come true.
Peter

I've done it. It takes a bit of luck and patience because I've definitely come across some frauds (men using women's pictures for attention) and people getting cold feet. But it does happen

Yep I have got messy with a female on here there is a topic about it somewhere basically don't make it sexual engage in plenty of conversation the main rule is putting the lady at ease and go.at there pace don't be pervy or creepy it's not often that a female come along that what's to get messy you may have to pay out for a session with someone who offers sessions to get feedback first

"Possible" is a wide open question. I mean, I'm sure it's possible to find someone on Auto Trader who will give you accordion lessons, but it's not the most likely situation.
You would have far better luck visiting the local topless bar in the afternoon... Almost certainly you would find somebody cute, young and adventuresome would participate in the experience for the price of the next payment on her Kia Forte.
If you are looking for some kind of relationship with someone here who shares the fetish.... you're better off buying a lottery ticket.