Yes, I know! I've been pretty quiet on the messy forums recently, but it isn't without good reason. In fact, it's a very, very good reason. So, rather than me write a thousand e-mails individually to you all, here it is in a nutshell......

After far too long being lonesome, I think I have found a good 'un (partner, that is). The last year and a bit have been spent as spinster of this parish, and not really a good place to be in. I broke up with my Dom (yes, I am into BDSM in a big way) after he did the dirty on me. Eventually I met a nice chap, who asked if I'd let him dom me - which I did. We hit it off and, to cut a long story short, we are now getting quite serious

I have been spending a helluva lot of time with him, and am now his submissive, which makes us both very, very happy. That said, I have not left my messy side behind. In fact, soon after I met him, we had our splosh night at THI (mentioned elsewhere) which went down a storm - he had never sploshed before but he loved it. So, when it came to my birthday the other week - he let me splosh at his, clearing out his playroom so we could fit in the pool & tarps. He joined in and had a great time - he is now a convert, another one to add to the flock lol!

Now, do not worry about messaging me if you are a chap and won't to still chat about your wam experiences, fantasies etc - We are a very open couple and he doesn't mind me chatting to other guys about fetishes, it's part of the territory and he is cool with it.

I do intend to hold another Splosh night at THI come the spring, so keep a look out for details, or message me if you have any ideas for a theme. I would appreciate an army of helpers to set up and clean up too, but all that is for the future.....one that is looking nice & rosey

Squidgy Hugs to all

Jo xxx