As you may or may not know, I have been the victim of some malicious gossip, which started at the Birmingham Splunch I'm sorry to say. Here is my side of events - I will names no names, but will lay out the facts.
After the meet, I received an e-mail from a male friend (let's call him Mr A), saying he was disgusted at what he had heard about me, and what I had been saying about his girlfriend behind her back. He also said I was sick, bitter and twisted, and he never wanted to hear from me again!!!!! To say I was shocked is putting it mildly.
Now, to make things clear, I did have a bit of history with Mr A, and had a bit of a crush on him for a while. However, as soon as I learned he was off the market, I backed off, knowing full well his intentions and how serious he was about his new g/f. However, upon meeting the 2 of them at a previous meet, I found his new missus a great laugh and easy to get on with, and we became on line friends. We chatted on line about this n that, what the community was like, who was who etc....you know, just chit chat like mates do. Never, at any point did she make any comments about me being jealous, nor did I.....
So, to hear that I had been accused of badmouthing anyone really upset me. But what really hurts is this - I have been told by another attendee that the person in question was saying how jealous, bitter etc I was, and that I couldn't let Mr A go, I plagued her with hate mail etc etc. Now, this info came to me second hand, so I hope it isn't true, coz really, she doesn't seem that kind of person..I sincerely hope someone has got the wrong end of the stick. I have never been one to be jealous - anyone who knows me will know it's not in my nature. All this has done is break up a friendship which, TBH got me into the WAM scene in the first place. Regrettably, it seems someone may not be able to deal with platonic relationships women have with men - specifically her man - and she needs to address those issues pronto instead of breaking up friendships that started ages before she came onto the scene.

I hope the parties concerned can see sense - love, I have no interest what so ever in your man, damn I have one of my own, so why should I???? As for you, Mr A - stop being an arse for a second and just think about what is being said and by whom.......Our community is special, and we need all the friends we can get - shame for people to spoil it by saying things that ARE NOT TRUE!!!!!!!

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