I've received quite a few emails over the past few months asking about my meeting with so many wammers across the USA. A few of the conversations have started with emails such as this one that I received today....

>>I was just wondering what are the people like you met off of the UMD like ? I Never met anyone off of here and was just wondering do they seem normal ? I mean i know we are on a WAM site but other than this i feel like i am a normal person.<<

Since this isn't a one off email, and I've met with so many people that are Umd "lurkers" with similar questions I thought I'd answer in a blog in case there is anyone else with a similar question that doesn't want to ask it or reach out to anyone because, they too, feel strange about their fetish.

So, in my travels I have met a multicultural mix of black, white, Asian, and Hispanic humans. 20-65 year olds. Religious, non religious. I've met lawyers, teachers, business owners, firemen, accountants, doctors, students, baristas, postmen, delivery drivers, electricians, gainfully unemployed, plumbers, film makers, artists, musicians, bartenders, waiters, and I know I'm missing someone! Agh!

Everyone I've met have been very respectful, and kind. Of course I've gotten a few creepy emails but I obviously am ignoring, and not meeting those people. The overwhelming majority of people across the board have been great though. I also believe this creepy type exist in all walks of life... fetishist or not.

The question of "normal" is one I can't answer. I don't know what normal is, nor do I want to know. I do not consider myself "normal." I also wouldn't call anyone Ive met in my travels normal. Not because there is anything wrong with them or because I found them strange, simply because I don't know where one is supposed to set the bar for normality. I personally wouldn't want to be considered normal anyway. Id consider it an insult and be worried I've come off as a boring, uninteresting, and uncreative individual! Lol!

I guess I'm saying everyone I've met, and I must be at 50 plus Umd members, has been awesome. No two sessions have been the same. Everyone has their own twists they spin into their brand of wam. Some pulling other fetishes in. In my "real" life all my friends know what Im up to and so they trust me and share their fetishes with me as well! Fetishists are everywhere! So in this totally mixed up world of different lovely people perhaps the non-normal is what makes us in all actuality... Totally normal?

Anyway, my Deep Thoughts mini rant blog is over. Lol! Stay Messy and normally abnormal yall!