I am a commuter college student in New York, trying to decide what to do when I graduate. As a rather shy person--compounded by an interest in watersports and "WAM" (Wet & Messy)--I have always been uncomfortable in sexual relationships and generally just preferred close friendship with people. There is something to be said for finding someone with similar interests, though, and that is why I write this.

I tend to be shy (of course) around people until I get to know them better, and then open up all at once. Many people think I'm funny, and just as many don't; I tend toward dry or sarcstic humor, and I'm better at it in writing than in person.

Hobbies include reading, writing, and gaming; I am an avid, possibly hopeless, gamer of all sorts.

As I am straight, I'm looking for a female who shares my interests. I am far from sex craving; although tantalizing, a woman who shares my interests or similar ones but would rather not perform them is okay with me--I'm comfortable just knowing that I'm not in a relationship with someone who deems me a pervert or freak.

As should be apparent, I'm more interested in a relationship than a fling.

I would prefer a woman who is friendly and modestly outgoing to complement my introversion. I'm not a "submissive"--to borrow a phrase from a seperate interest--so I have no liking for overly assertive, overbearing people.