When I first came out I was living in a typical red state where the gay bars were in the worst parts of town. But I was young and they were fun and accepting places to have a few drinks and meet people.
Typically at that age, no one even thought of going out until after eleven but I was bored and headed out early, arriving around 9. As I walked in the place was empty except for a few older guys and one really cute guy in the corner of the bar, who I recognized. Gary was on the gay softball league and I met him several times through mutual friends. I knew he had a boyfriend so I just sat at the other end of the bar and waved when he looked my way. He smiled and stood up and began walking over. He was super hot, about 5'10" and a lean but toned body. He was wearing a hot pair of tan Levi's and a checkered red and blue shirt. I could see the white lining of a tshirt underneath and the brown belt and leather shoes made him the preppy boy of my dreams. But from the slightly staggered walk I could tell he must have been at the bar for a while.
He sat next to me and asked why I was there so early. I told him I was bored and wanted a drink before it became too crowded. I asked him why he was there. He said he broke up with his boyfriend the night before and just wanted to get out of the house. I told him I was sorry to hear that, although I secretly was elated, and asked if he wanted to talk about it. He took another sip of his drink and said that the issue was the typical gay problem, sex. He said his boyfriend was so vanilla and he wasnt interested in even discussing new things much less exploring them. Gary said he felt he needed to try things while he was young.
I got up the nerve to ask him what it was he wanted to try. He got quiet and then ordered another round for us both. He said a little more liquid courage would loosen his lips. "Have you ever heard of WAM?" he asked. My heart skipped a beat and I felt myself blushing hard. You mean wet and messy I finally managed to say. Gary's eyes widened and he turned to face me. He leaned in and said, you've heard of it?