Random question;
what's the longest you've "endured" mess?

Now by endured I don't mean played in. I mean if it is unpleasant for any reason; too cold, too gross mess, restrained within it etc. So generally including some form of punishment.

And a few follow up questions;

Once you've cum does that alter the feeling for mess? Do people often immediately want to get cleaned up? Is it harder to "endure" then?

Have any models done "endurance" scenes, i.e. a scene where the model is gunged in a nasty mess (subjective based on who, but a mess they want to clean up from), then either restrained in it or left in it for significant time, I kind of imagine time lapse photography over the next hour, before a second part of the film finding out how they are feeling? Would any of the models be willing to do it?

Oddly yes, when I cumI want to get clean ASAP, the mood is over and I am back to my 'normal' self (I.e. when I get something on my hands I don't like the feeling and wash it off straight away).

My preference is to be gunged/pied just at the 'point of no return' anyway rather than long messy play (which are still great though )

My libido takes a sharp (if brief) drop after ejaculating, so I've stopped trying to combine mess and masturbation (or at least I've stopped *finishing*). The self-loathing that follows ejaculation is too depressing.

I'll regularly endure/enjoy mess for 60 to 90 minutes in a solo session, after which the grim realization that I have to clean up all the mess is a real buzz-kill.

This, and it doesn't just apply to WAM either. The male orgasm is a lot like turning a server off by ripping the plug out of the wall. Granted, it's different with sex than masturbation.

With sex, I can enjoy the afterglow, and attend the wants an needs of my lover, but I'm done and satisfied.

With masturbation (which I mainly do with the express purpose of getting my mind off of being horny), it's the closest I can imagine to being actually bi polar. Going from the mania of getting off to...well, that's over, time to do real life shit.

So with WAM, IF I actually do it, once I'm done, I usually feel like a moron who wasted a bunch of time and food, and now more because I have to clean it all up.

Not 'endure'...ware! I like to feel the weight of gooey pie (or mud) on my face for a while. Facials too...

Yep. Especially the wasted food/mess part. I have not self-wammed in years unless it was testing a contraption I built.
Also the masturbating, as I have very low libido I only masturbate when I can't sleep or have a weird energy that I can't direct, then 'cleaning out the pipes' seems to leave me with energy but my mind can focus. Hence why men should be forced to masturbate before going into a motorbike showroom (men=me, £13000 later = some regrets).

I have to admit, even as a top gunging someone else and not being the one in the mess, after I cum I often think "this is ridiculous and's going to be a mare to clean..."

I've done up to three hours at the farm, and been forced to cum twice. Like most people, once I've orgasmed the desire leaves my body. If the guests start trashing me again, or like the other night in the the thunderstorm, the mess doens't stop, I'll become aroused for the second time.

regards

Andy and the team/

Sorry to derail the topic but as a late bloomer to sex (33 was when I punched my card) It's actually kind of good to know I am not the only one who feels bad after I masturbate. Growing up in a Christian household didn't help but I often feel empty after I've cummed.

As soon as I come to my senses after a session I want the muck off me. I dont ever sit and enjoy it.. though hours later i wish i did. It just does zero for me after i cum... Then again there has been sessions where right after the shower I am back in the left over slop like a pig in mud. The snap however is REAL though lol.

Yeah my hubby is the same way...as soon as he cums, it's over...no matter what he asked for along the way.

The most I've felt like I've had to "endure" was a 2hr session involving an insane amount of savoury food including a massive variety of curry and pasta sauces and condiments...in fairness I was the one who bought the supplies so it's my own fault but I genuinely smelt like a bin when everything started to mix together! I remember him saying that he wanted me to pretend to absolutely hate it and be really grossed out....I didn't need to pretend

Well so far I haven't had an experience where it was awful to be messy.

And well for me I don't want to get clean right after I have ejaculated as I do play with the mess and myself for a bit but not really longer than 2 hours after my last ejaculation as it just gets boring after that.

I didn't realise you even really did savoury, you've got 1 film with some in?

Do you enjoy yucky sessions at all?

I've done savoury in sessions far more often than filming, but there are several other savoury films I've done with other studios that probably just haven't been released yet.

I'm a masochist so I enjoy not enjoying things lmao

So, completely on the flipside of that, what foodstufs do you actually really love getting messy with. Particularly if someone else suggests it and you suddenly think "ooh, fabulous!"

Depends on the mess. if it is chocolate pudding and non dairy whipped topping, I can play in it for a long time, if it is savory stuff that will stink after some time, not too long.

Count me among the "quick" cleaner-uppers! I think it's partly some lingering effect of when I was younger and didn't have my own place, and getting cleaned up ASAP to avoid getting caught was a big factor, and of course when you're playing outdoors there's a quick "oh shit I could seriously get caught, I gotta get it together quick here".... after the magic of the erotic experience that let you do really stupid and risky things passes...

But TBQH I would like to work on this! I think it's really nice to savor experiences and to wallow in the muck, especially with some music on, a little something relaxing in the system, etc. Sometimes sex with yourself really is a quickie and sometimes it's nice to make it a whole evening, including time to relish the afterglow. Definitely not something to be ashamed of, though I know that's easier for me to say as someone who wasn't raised with AS many shames and hangups around sexuality (but still a few).

I also think I've had to "unlearn" some of this "quick cleanup" mentality when playing with others --- it can sorta kill the mood just at the moment when everyone's had the most fun, to switch into gathering up cleaning supplies and all that. And you really REALLY want to avoid thinking of the person you're playing with as part of some shameful experience that you need to push back down into your psyche ASAP. When I was younger I sort of did that to a partner until she called me out for it and it really gave me a lot to think about.