Yes there are a fair number of Hot women on this forum, messy hotties I am sure we have all dreamed about having messy sex with, Jessica25, Ariel, Jayce and Dirty girl MudBunny I have had many fantasies about (sorry MudBunny) I also know there are a lot of single men on this site and a fair number of Men (and women Jilly, Vampiress) with partners who either tolerate or love WAM.

I would like to see a picture of your partner, preferably one clean and one messy. Why? Well when I was single and a poor lonely guy I had fantasies about meeting a hot girl into wet and messy adventures, I know its what my old Friend Rob Blaine always wanted, but never found. I think that if we can see that some of us have messy partners it gives those of us who are single hope that they can also get lucky and meet a sexy WAM partner. Hope, of course is the quintessential thing that keeps us all going right? So come on lets see, I am super lucky so I will start the ball rolling as I want to show off.... I am curious... Don't be shy....

I am 57 years old and work in Tech Security, could do with loosing 20lbs, its true I used to be in the porn business and made WAM movies but I got lucky and met a wonderful French girl who is not only my best friend and partner in crime but is also uber hot I think:

No smartass! The entire idea is to give the single guys hope we will no longer need the right hand LOL Now go to your room or Athena will come and spank you.....

thats the least likely way to get me to go to my room is to threaten a spanking.

So I CAN have Ivy, is what you're saying?

Great post, being single it is fantastic to know that this sort of thing can happen. By the way what are you doing stealing our beautiful French women . I thought you were going to space with fawn talk about your cake and eating it, she won't be happy

Prediction: We're ALL gonna go with jokes instead of pics, and Phil's gonna have a spasm.

Ms. Plonk has expressly forbidden any posting of her image, clean or messy. That, IMO, is more proof of a willing spouse than any picture. That being said, yes, you have my every assurance that there are girls out there willing to give it a go- you just have to get your ass off the couch and find them.

As for me, you're just going to have to make due with my hobby of trolling the net looking for fresh faces.

Yes Regis you can now have Ivy, although I have warned you....

I understand too Plonk, people are shy for all kinds of reasons, but let everyone know you have a unicorn, I suspect it will help....

Phil

Tell her I'll double it.

I'm married, but can I get in on Athena spanking me? :lovestruck:



And Phil, you were also married to the gorgeous and sexy Shaun!

Norman

You are right Norman I was, but we were divorced over 20 years ago now, a lot of water under the bridge man, a different time... Athena is a good friend, we have the same interests, views and hobbies, long before we even touch on WAM or sex...

Phil

Nice idea for a thread There are certainly women out there, you just have to look. Here's a few of my old girlfriends and flings.

I know, Phil. But in line with the point of this thread (started by some guy who likes mud!) you've had (at least) two beautiful, sexy ladies who were into wam!

Norman

Oh Norman there are many, all you have to do is get over the embarrassment and ask. I have never met a woman who was not at least interested in a little experiment, most that I have asked have been hugely entertained....

Phil

LOL

If I posted a picture I'd be single within the hour but needless to say there are woman out there who may not be into WAM but are willing to try it out for you

my only real advice is spend time learning what she likes in bed learn what her body needs to be satisfied and if you can keep that up and if you can make her enjoy sex every time she will reciprocate and do what makes you happy as well

With my GF I've created something of a sex addict monster she thinks about it more than I do but its also why I get to indulge my WAM fetish

Confessed my fetish and my life turned into this...

Wow, Anthony! I don't remember seeing any "normal*" pictures of Susan like this before! She looks beautiful! :lovestruck: I love her long hair in these pics, and she is dressed so pretty!

You two make a great-looking couple!

And, of course, the messy pics are awesome!

Norman

*"Normal" as in: just a nice, head-on pic from RL, in a nice outfit. As opposed to a clean pic of Susan ready to get messy, not necessarily looking straight into the camera.

Erica, that is a very hot outfit! You look fabulous in it! And you look so cute with your glasses! :lovestruck:

That is excellent face and hair mess!

Norman

Whenever a female friend is up for some fun messy experiences, we go for it. Always great times!

Uh... nah.

But here is the big reveleation...

You're not going to find someone already into it.

Short version as I have written long posts on the subject.

In a good relationship, partners want to please each other and will. People want to please each other sexually.

So turning a partner onto WAM is very realistic.


Where people go wrong is by framing it badly.


"It would be hot pieing you in the face" is bad. You are making it about the act, and the act being sexy.

"You would look totally cute covered in pie" makes it about her.

A woman doesn't want to with a guy that thinks pies are sexy.

A woman doesn't want to be with a guy where any girl being pied is sexy.

A woman will want to be with a guy who thinks HER being pied is sexy.

(Insert whatever for pie, just an example).

It has to be about her, or you're doing it wrong.

It is simple, and astounding. I think it can be explained by people (mainly guys) just not growing up sexually and basing a sexual relationship on their needs.

You don't need tricks, just a basic understanding of how relationships works. With that, a fetish isn't something that's a frustration pressuring a relationship... it's something to share and strengthen.

I'm the same, I've don't have an ex that went "ewww, no".

I guess the new version would be "gentleman use video cameras and upload only to a computer not connected to the internet".

Yea when my bf told me about it I had never heard of the fetish. He showed me some videos and told me why it turned him on.

So I decided to try it. I would say just be honest, don't try to trick your partner.

Absolutely noise, very true. But in my experience all you need to do is ask! If the woman cares for you enough or has any kind of sense of adventure or fun she will but up for it.... If not? Well its probably not going to work out anyway so why not find out asking about your favourate fetish

Great to see fellow UMD members with messy partners, great stuff....

Phil

Well, it took me just a few months and I am always will be the instigator when it comes to messy fun but I remember her just telling me out of the blue before we had ever gotten messy that she would like to pour syrup over her hair to see what it felt like... And so it began

Okay whitechocolate you guys look great, super happy for you both.....

Phil

Outstanding

Spanking? Isnt that a differen forum??

I've been very lucky the proof you ask? https://umd.net/profile/pieprincess I give you my girlfriend who enjoyed this kink so much she made her own profile, I'll let decide if she wants to post pics, clean or dirty. But yes guys awesome open minded women are out there!

Phil, As much as we would like to oblige you on your request, Vampiress has to remain hidden in her "before pics". Her anonymity is important to her. But, we will always have plenty of ":after" pics to share. Please accept this "before". picture.
I assure you, her face is as stunning as the rest.